My sis boyfriend GIRLS ONLY?

Question

i need a girls point of view my sister just told me today and that she has a boyfriend cause she saw him in a store today

but she doesnt want my dad to know

shes 11 years old should i tell my dad or just keep it a secret i wouldnt want her to not trust me anymore

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please help!

Answer 1

well have a boyfriend at her age is completely harmless.. i mean its not like they go out and have s*x you know? and well you should kinda bring it up to your dad and ask him what age shes aloud to have a boyfriend. but even tho he may set and age.. she might not listen to that.. like me.

Answer 2

There's no need to tell. She's 11. Keep her secret so she can come to you as she gets older and gets in more serious relationships. Having a boyfriend is normal and natural and part of growing up! :)

Answer 3

well shes 11

so it cant ppossibly be anything serious

just keep it a secret fot a while

and if they stay together make her tell him

Answer 4

if she don't  want your dad to know. then why would you even consider  being a little snitch.  

Answer 5

u r sick person u know that haha get some help man

Answer 6

If it is serious, you should tell your bad. But if its just, you know there, its probably not worth not being trusted by your sister. :)

Answer 7

if shes 11 then its not serious and you should definately keep it a secret.  its just a middle school boyfriend and you have nothing to worry about.  dont tell your parents.  its not worth it.

Answer 8

dont snitch on your sister because she'll always remember ..

make her have her fun its puppy love.

Answer 9

it cant really be that serious if she is eleve years old  i would say if she starts sneaking around with him or lying to your parents , then you should tell your dad otherwise just let it be a fun thing between you guys - a sisterly bond

Answer 10

well from a girls point of view. keep it from ur dad. dont invade in her privacy. let her explore. but do show a little concern for her. but not too much. i know what its like when the sis/bro blabs to the parents.. NOT COOL.

Answer 11

DUDE she's 11 h**l YEAH you should TELL or do something! have a talk to the kidd for crying out loud! What if she turned out pregnate! then how would you feel?

Answer 12

it depends. what kind of boyfriend do you think your sister means? I mean, when I was eleven, most girls who had boyfriends only spoke to them at lunch, and holding hands was all anyone did. then again, she might be thinking that because she has a boyfriend, she is obligated to kiss, hug, and whatever else with him. so if I were you, I'd try to find out what level of "boyfriend-ness" your sister is on. is it innocent puppy love? or the real deal (which is too much for an 11 year old!)? if it's just puppy love, don't tell your dad because she'll be completely embarrased. but if it's the real deal, tell your father, because you don't want to have a pregnant p*****n sister!

Answer 13

if she saw him in the store for the first time then yes cause yooh dont want her to get hurt .right? so anyways talk to her about it tto your sister find more details and see what yooh thimk after that and yooh dont feel right then yooh should=] but yooh shouldnt tell cause its not fun being told on and if this can be a really good chance for you guys to bond=]

Answer 14

Don't tell.  She's probably living in a fantasy world anyway.  She probably just has a crush on this guy, and that's all.

Answer 15

Well, ask your little sister if it's a serious thing (though I do doubt it because they are 11 years old)

(sorry if my answer sucks, I don't have a little sister. just two older brothers.)

Answer 16

Well, tell your dad when your sis is not there. Tell your dad to not get angry at her. If your dad gets angry tell him that it is your sister's choice to have a boyfriend not his. Be calm and relaxed when you talk to him. Start off with a simple topic then gradually get to the point and tell him that your sister has a boyfriend.