a) Is it weird that my sister's fiance never lets me sit up front with her when she drives? One time I made a point of sitting there and just tried to jokingly tell him "Hey I never see my sister! She lives in another state!", he was sort of ok but then on the way back from the same trip he basically ran to the door to get in the front. Is this normal behavior of a 30 year old man? I am almost 10 years younger so I don't know if he is just giving me little sister treatment or what.
b) Also, whenever they visit my parents (and usually they pay for them to come out), he never brings anything for my mom or dad (I know that's kind of dumb but don't guys usually love to shmooze at least to the mom?). He also never helps with cooking (even Christmas cookies, fun things etc), doesn't offer to help with anything (one time my dad was basically being crushed under the dishwasher trying to fix it while only he and her fiance were home), never pays for anything.... etc. He just sits on the couch and or on his laptop not really talking except to whine at my sister if she isn't in his lap. Usually my boyfriends try to do everything to make my parents like them and vice-versa, so what's up with that? Does he not think we matter or care about what we think at all?
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