My sister always makes fun of me, im officially sick of it, what do i do?

Question

I'm sick of my sister

shes 16 in november, I'm 14

she always criticizes.

all she does is point out my flaws in front of other people

she'll be like, EWW YOU HAVE A HUGE PIMPLE, for having one pimple on my entire face,

or she'll ALWAYS be like, you fake hair wearing, blahblahblah, or half your hair isnt even real, since sometimes i wear extensions, when i make my hair wavy or whatever

its so annoying,

i keep telling her to stop and she says okay

then she still does it

ive told my mom but she doesnt do anything about it

tonight i finally lashed out on her about the freakin pimple thing

i was standing and she was like, EWWW GET AWAY FROM ME,

ohmygod you have such a freakin big pimple in front of like, 4 people that were over,

so i was like " stop making fun of everyone and pointing out their flaws to make your self feel better you insecure *****"

that wasnt neccesary, but it just came out,

helpppp.

i cant stand her,

after tonight i just started crying,

i really am sick of her

and dont just say "ignore her" or something,

im talking bout real advice here

Answer 1

well have that many pimples

#1 option  talk to her about it

#2 point out her flawss in front of a boy she likes or her bf that will totally embarss her even if she doesn't show it if she says something back then u can do that

#3 when she pionts out ur pimple say something like "well at least i don't have to use proactive , clean and clear and all thoose other things u put on your mask

#4 dis her

#5 u could have a jar of pee and a little period blood and when she does that ssplash it on her face lol

Answer 2

Tell her you're getting upset w/her hurting remarks she makes in front of others.  Let her know you don't do it to her, why is she so cruel & do it to you.  Ask her if she'd like you to start doing the same to her as she's doing to you.  She's not treating you fairly & it all uncalled for.  Ask her if she's that insecure w/herself that she has to hurt & pick on you.  If after you've talked to her & she still keeps it up, I'd really start to do the same back to her.  I'm inclined to be more of a do unto others type of person, but if she continues to out & out rite hurt you constantly, then just try a couple times to do some "come backs" on her so she'll see how it feels.  See if that  might help get thru to her.  I sounds like she's looking for attention, but she sure is doing it in a negative/hurting manner. Just too bad your mom won't help w/the situation tho as really it is her place to "correct" you kids when one is doing wrong.  I don't understand why she's allowing it.  Best to you, honey, & hope you can get it straightened out soon...:)

Answer 3

ask her whats so wrong in her life that she has to bother u. misery loves company. start pointing out her flaws, everyone has them. dont let it go to ur heart because shes a jerk. i know it hurts but if she sees that shes getting to u shes not going to stop. give it back to her n c how she feels, wrong or not.

Answer 4

Give her a big dose of her own medicine. Or just don't hang out with her anymore. Find out why she has such low self esteem because hurt people-hurt people. Get it.

Answer 5

do whatever she's doin to you. she'll eventually stop.  

Answer 6

what you said was neccasary, and true, you should try just totally ignoring her and give her the cold shoulder.  Maybe it will make her realize that she should try being your sister and not your enemy.

Answer 7

Your sister may act a little immature, but I'm willing to bet if you talked to her, really talked, alone and no yelling, she'd stop. Tell her it really upsets you. She probably doesn't even realize how much it's affecting you. Try talking and see what happens. Good luck!

Answer 8

Get a T-shirt made that's says " I'm officially sick of my sister"  that makes it official, and also makes the statement. It shows that you're creative and serious as well.