My sister and her friends are always rude to me. I used to be close to them, but now it's like I'm invisible.?

Question

A few months ago, I showed one of my sister's friends a story I wrote. I saw her today and told her how long it was and that I have edited it extensively. She said, "Good, because when I read it last time, I was like, Yikes!"

Me: Ummm. . . . Well, I have to go now.

My sister and her friends are always putting me down. They make rude comments about my clothes, hobbies, etc.. It's been going on for a long time now and I'm sick of it. What should I do?

Answer 1

Talk to your sister or even your parents, if that doesn't work just don't hang around your sister's friends anymore

Answer 2

Just ignore them and get some friends of your own, me and my sisters friends were just like that, but then they got older and wanted more alone time together, so I did I left them alone, we talked as friends, not like buddies, if this is not the case then don't talk to them, and have your friends over.

Answer 3

How old are you? How old is your sister and her friends? They're just being rude and disrespectful. I  bet ya that if one of them had to talk to you alone, they would be nicer. When people aare in groups, they're afriad to think for themselves, so they do whatever makes them look cool or has others believeing that they're cool or "bad a$$". Just don't worry about them. If they want to be rude for no reason, let them. Tell them they're just being immature jerks who are afraid to think for themselves and you actually feel sorry for them. Then just leave. You don't need to put up with that kind of c**p from people.

Good luck and God Bless!

Answer 4

Kids like to separate themselves, to find an identity, and unfortunately part of this process is pushing others, like parents and siblings, away. It won't last forever, but it is difficult to get through while it lasts.

It is probably time to find your own friends with whom you spend the most activity/sharing time with, and consider your sister and her friends your secondary, less important circle. Good luck, you can do it.

Answer 5

wuuts up bruh.  i say you find a group of friends taht accept you for who you are.  dont hang around them anymore. if they want to hang out, tell em ur done dealing with their bull s**+.t and you have found real friends.

Answer 6

get your own friends

Answer 7

aww..i'm assuming that your sister is older? It's ok...it's just a matter of the age difference probably. I went through the same thing with my older sister, we are 5 years appart. She had to "look cool" in front of her friends suddenly and it felt like I had lost her as a friend. Just give her the space at the moment...she will change again. Things will be fine.