My sister inlaw is always saying bad stuff about my son and she just had a baby boy .?

Question

i think she want's to lable him . this is a big family and there is a lot of girls .so everyone is so happy about my sonand her son to

Answer 1

Just smile and think of all the fun you are going to have when she realizes her son is a tyrant and yours is well behaved.  She sounds very immature.  You should feel sorry for her!

Answer 2

Tell her to mind her own business and worry about her own child.

Answer 3

Make a joke.

If she comments and rolls her eyes, comment about how mature she's being.

Answer 4

I had this same problem with an old friend .. her son was 6 months older then my son and if I said something about him it was always "Oh yeah well my son did this one day .. blah blah blah" It was really annoying but I just ignored it and tryed to continue to be her friend but it just didn't work out.

Try not to go down to her level.. thats all she wants. I can't stand people like that!

Answer 5

let me go ahead and tell you about these sister-in-laws girl! they act like they know everything and before long your going to go off on her I KNOW!! because mine is the same way shes always saying something but not anymore i can assure you. Just ask her what she meant by it and tell her it offended you and why?just let her know, you do not gotta snap right away just see what her reason for being a snot was!and dont let her say anything else bad about your child. because girl id flip out on someone if they said something bad about my son.

Answer 6

been there done this, she is jealous of you and your son. she want's her son to be the best and the most noticeable in the family. do what I did, tell her that yall are family and just because yall are family doesn't mean that you will not take up for your son, he is your blood and to stop saying bad thing's about your son or you will not be aloud to come around him anymore. children play and she need's to get to reality with that c**p. good luck with the jealousy family.

Answer 7

Oh god!! she wants her baby boy to be the best, try not to play into it. Just be humble about the things your son has learned and be happy for when her son does the same things. If you don't let if bother you trust me it will eat her up.

Answer 8

Hi well tell her to keep her mouth shut coz they are only kids after all and no kids perfect OK?

I find SIL's  seem to have way too much time on their hands when all they can do is knock and criticize family it sends me batty LOL

The green eyed devil of jealousy sounds ripe n active in ur family hmmm ?LOL

Let her make an idiot of herself don't lower urself to her low level of trying to win brownie points it never works ...so chill and wait for her to self destruct LOl ♥

Answer 9

well it all stems from jealousy...you could try to talk to her but if she is so low as to talk about a child to his own parents it probably wouldnt do any good.. my advice take the high road and make her look like the spoiled brat she really is..

Answer 10

It sounds like your sister-in-law is obsessed with the perfect image of a child, kinda uppity if you ask me.  Not only are kids going to be kids... but boys are nothing like girls.  Boys are much more active and far less predictable.  If you ask me... ignore her and if you don't already do then start hating her.  She's obviously deserving of what strife her son has to offer her in the future.  In a couple of years you'll find yourself sitting in the background with your well-behaved son giving her the dirty looks!!  You can laugh then... at least on the inside.  Then would be the time to be the bigger person and offer her some parental insight as to the rearing of boys.  You two will see eye-to-eye eventually.

Answer 11

She is digging her own hole.  Not a lot you can do but let her continue to dig until she comes to the end of herself in it.  Be aloof from her jealousies and behaviour.  You don't have to prove yourself or your son.  She is unwise in what she is doing and people will see for themselves what is going on.  Do not react to her or get emotionally involved.

Answer 12

Don't play her little game, don't listen and ignore it. She'll be the one looking like a bi*** for saying the bad stuff ;)

Answer 13

stay away from her.  set your boundaries.  tell her that you don't like the way she talks about your child.  if she continues, keep your distance.

Answer 14

Is this her first baby? It sounds like it. I think all first time parents think "my child isn't going to act like their child".

Ha ha ha ha.

She's in for a rude awakening!!!

All kids act the same.

Don't worry, she'll understand soon enough. :)

Answer 15

Why don't you take her aside and talk to her about her rude behaviour. Or ask your partner to ... there really isn't enough information to say anymore than that. Sorry.