My sister is a little brat who is ruining my life ?! Ugh ?!?

Question

Everytime we argue she calls me a sl*t, who*e, bitc* etc

I don't know what the heck is her problem!

In fact, we had an argument just now in the kitchen and she was like "i don't care what you say cause bi*ches never talk sense".

And i was like WTF and i stabbed the ketchup bottle on the table and a plate fell and broke and i was so upset and went up crying.

I mean what is wrong with that brat, i don't go around dancing in bars or strippin* all over the place that she has the right to call me that. Dang!

She always finds a way to annoy me!!!!

And I get the fault for most of the stuff.

The girl is like 10 and she is using all those words !!

OMG..and i'm only 13.

I mean what the heck ?!!!!!

Help me out and tell me what you think.

Answer 1

jeez what a little brat

be a good big sister and whip her into shape

Answer 2

She is trying to get you to act like you did. Just ignore her and be nice to her and act like she is not doing that and see what her reaction is. It may not be a straight on reaction, it may take a while, just keep it up and she will fall.  

Answer 3

Haha. I hope you have your own room. I'm 13 as well. Gain respect from your parents and they will surely be on your side.Do what they ask- it works trust me. Hold you tounge in unfair situations. When your brat is being annoying or is just a plain moronic *****- ignore her. It's the best medicine! She'll go up in fury after a couple of days. It'll get worse and all you have to do is not look at her and pretend she's not there. If you have to clean the kitchen or something- if she doesn't, just do it. Gain the respect from your parents by helping around the hosue more often- you'll have more privliges and they will see more maturity in you. Your r****d of a sister will no long be able to stuff your head! Just pretend she's not there- unless of cause she walks in on you in the bathroom lol. Then tell your parents. DO NOT YELL AT HER! Just pretend she's not there. It's really hard, i know. I have a twin with the maturity of a 2 year old! She calls me a s**t, ***** etc. My parents have barely heard her say that, but i ignore her. She rarely does it anymore- except now and then. And when she does- WOW! My parents have a fit! They put the discipline in her. Just gain respect and they key word is : IGNORE.

Answer 4

just ignore her if she starts to say something to you just sit there and pretend you cant here her dont say what i couldnt here you stuff just pretend it goes through an ear and out the other

Answer 5

seriously just barge in her room now.

and ask her or next time you get in a fight ask her and slap her.

literally!

or tell you parents.

if they dont do anything then slap her or hit her.

and then if your parents get mad say you had to do something since they didnt.

but she should get in trouble for her potty mouth.

good luck.

Answer 6

Tell You Parents Or Set up video cameras were most of the fights happen and try to get it on camera :] You 13 just talk control dont hit her but tell her what could happen.  Just try to catch it on camera or some kinda proof that it happens and tell the parents ;]

<3

Marissa

Answer 7

welcome to my life.  except i dont even LIVE with my sister (shes my 1/2 sister) and she is a brat end of story.  and we are 5 years apart (im older) shes 12.  she still bites hits kicks etc whatever to get her way and my stepmom is like w/e she doesnt care my sister is always right.  shes like 25 pounds overweight at least, and im 'average' for my height so my stepmom thinks i have eating problems. my sister is ALWAYS right.  she has a cell and her vm message is like im too cool to talk to you (think camp rock...tess...thats exactly what she acts like, but worse!)

i know exactly what this is , its annoying as anything, just ignore her and she will grow out of it soon i hope.  do your parents condone this or not?  my sister htat i live with is 10 and she can be testy sometimes but mostly my parents just ignore/punish her and we know that she will soon grow out of this stage as everything else.

Answer 8

That's okay.  I have a similar problem, only it doesn't sound quite as bad!  10 year olds are in league with the devil :-) Suggested plans of action:

1) Threaten to deny her of the things that make her happy that are within your power, gently but firmly saying that otherwise her constant annoying of you makes it way to difficult for you to try to be nice.

2) Don't speak to her.  This can really get to people like them.  It's cruel, but in desperate situations it's the best thing to do.

3) Leave the room whenever she comes in, or go to a friend's house when she's at home.  She will seriously start to miss you, and she may begin to realize how bad she's been and will feel sorry.

4) Start being oh so nice to her (ie. help her with her homework, offer to play games with her, call her your "darling little sister").  There are two things that she will respond with:

a) She will be surprised and feel guilty she was so nasty to you, and may become nicer to you.

b) She will become REALLY annoyed, in which case it doesn't matter because, in your parent's eyes, it will only be her who's getting angry.

The most important thing to remember though, is that no matter how mean she is, it's not your fault and SHE'S the one with the problem. If it becomes too much, talk about it with people, or ask your sister's friends or your parents to seriously ask your sister to quit being stupid.

Good luck :-)

Frederick

Answer 9

Don't worry - that's just what younger sisters do. You're at ages where you're prone to arguing. I have an older sister and a younger sister (and also two brothers - I'm the middle child) and I fully empathize with you (although we didn't use such harsh language). As you age, you two will be great friends.

Just explain to her that as sisters, you guys should respect each other. You're her role model, remember. If you use bad words, so will she.