My sister is about to have her babyshower today and I don't want to be bother with anyone!?

Question

I don't think it is right,my sister is planning a baby shower and she didn't even have enough money!

At the last minute my mom start pulling stuff out of are freezer and start putting stuff together. My mom is cooking as we speak,where is my sister? She is no where to be found and my mom needs some help and the kitchen needs to be clean before 3:30.

I feel like My sister should be helping her it is her party and she is the one who didn't have enough money and did not bring enough food!

My mom said if it was me,should would do the same! My mom said she do not want a house full of people and not enough food for people to eat,then she would be embarrassed.

My mom said if she has another baby she is on her own.

(This is my sister 2nd Child)

I don't feel be social today,so I am going to stay in my room! I don't like the way this party planned out!

My sister Best Friend suppose to been cooking but the plans were scratched!

Am I wrong for not comming out of my room?

Answer 1

Whose idea was it to plan this party? Because you are really not supposed to have a party for your second baby, and you definitely are not supposed to plan it for yourself. (That is just greedy.) If it was your moms idea, I don't think there is anything wrong with your sister hanging back for the day. After all, she is pregnant and already has 1 child so she is most likely exhausted.

Answer 2

Normally a family member or a friend throws the baby shower.  The fact that you aren't helping and throwing a tantrum speaks volumes about you.  Get off the computer and help your mom.  

Answer 3

You should help your mom.

Answer 4

she dont need to help shes pregnant it's her babyshower all she need to do is show up

Answer 5

Yes, you need to support your Mom. Even though you don't agree with what she is doing.

If your Mom want's to be your sister's doormat then you aren't going to be able to change that but you will be showing your Mom that you love her by helping her when she needs help.

Answer 6

wow you are a loser ! im glad i don't have sisters like you !

Answer 7

do i detect a hint of jealousy?

if you are upset with your sister, you could at least give your mom a hand. i'm sure she could use the help!

Answer 8

Well, do you think you're making the situation any better by being selfish and sitting in your room all day? You could be out in the kitchen helping your mother with whatever needs to be done, you know. Just because your sister is not doing right by this party, doesn't mean that you can't take the pressure off your mother a bit and help out.

Stop acting like a little child and show your mother that you can act like an adult. Help her clean the kitchen before 3, so that she isn't embarrassed with a dirty kitchen.

  

Answer 9

No, it sounds like you're suffering from Sour grapes. (jealousy). Stay in your room because you will simply ruin your sister's day. And it is HEr day...not your's so quit being a brat.  

Answer 10

Yea sounds to me your being a little selfish. This party is for the baby. If your mom is willing to pitch in to make sure this party goes well, you should help. That's your sister and your little niece or nephew that this party is for. Would you like it if your sister didn't come to your baby shower? Just think about it before you make a decision.  

Answer 11

I think you should do as you feel.but please help your mom,as she is stuck in this situation.I think your mother would really think of you highly for helping.

Answer 12

Wow, someone is a little angry.  And I guess you should be.  Sounds like your sister is a little young for a baby.  You can do what you want.  Either get on board and help out and love your sister regardless of her short commings or I suggest finding somewhere else to go for the day.  Go out with a friend.  

Answer 13

This day isn't about you.  It is about your sister's baby.  You are only making things harder on your mom by staying in your room.  All it will accomplish is that everyone will be wondering what is wrong and why you are refusing to come down.  In the end it will only make you look childish.  Just suck it up and go help your mom out.  It doesn't really matter if you don't like the way the party planned out.  It's not about you.

Answer 14

yes because that may make a scene in front of other people.  The best way to address this would be to politely attend the party and support your sister, and then address her selfishness later in a private place when the two of you are alone.