My sister is changing what do I do??

Question

Ok so me and my sister have been close since like forever. We tell each other everything and don't let any of the details slip. Well ther's also a 3 year gap and now shes all bout friends and recently she hid a jaw dropping secret from me. What do I do let her go her way or fight for her. We are both teens if that helps

Answer 1

Talk to her and tell her how you're feeling.  Ask her what is going on.  Sometimes as teens you go through phases.  I'm sure she will come out of it.  Being a teen can be hard sometimes.  Maybe she's having a rough time right now.  

Answer 2

well, if you fight for her, she will most likey push away. i used to have a younger cousin, and she was like my rock.. i told her everything, and she told me everything. but somehow things between us changed. and she knows that im growing on to my friends more and i tell them more things... but she was fighting for me.. all we need is space.. and after a while, she'll come back to you.she'll figure out that family is most important. trust me.. i know.

Answer 3

I would fight for her, but if she isn't responding, let her have her space.  At least let her know how you feel.

Answer 4

you should definatly fight for her! don't let friends get in between you guys. talk to her and tell her whats going on and that you think that there has been a big change in her. try to make her understand and comprehend all your points.

good luck!!!! =)

Answer 5

you have to keep your bond, try saying "what do you say we go shopping together" or "what do you say we go out to lunch together" and make sure you mention that it's the two of you, because if shes caught up in her friends, she'll say "oh can so and so come along" and you want it to be just the two of you, and once you get the chance to bond with her talk about things you two talk about, and then bring the topic up to "why did you hide that secret from me" apparently that jaw dropping secret, i think the best place for this is going out to lunch - table for two, and you can sit outside, not inside, so she won't feel like everyone is listening, if you're outside then there are other noises and its more relaxing with the wind =], but yes keep trying to bond, family IS the most important thing, more important than friends, friends come and go but family stays

Answer 6

Having your ages would really help r u 13 and her 16? Because if so at 16 she is going to be involved with guys quite a bit more and if its opposite shes probably just starting to really get into boy friends and everything so thats probably why. Anyway dont try to fight for her if you were close once most likely you will be again. Anywho if try to pull her close because you think shes driffting shell only end up pushing you away more. Just give it some time. She should come around. Hope was of some assistance I have a sister myself 9 yrs difference we did not get along growing up but we get along pretty good now. Its funny shes older than me but she acts more like a teenager than I do! haha!!  

Answer 7

Tell her how you feel. Let her know that she can tell you anything, but you're not forcing her to tell you everything. Just let her know that you are there and you feel bad when you're left out. Then she'll see how you feel and things should get better :)