My sister is dieing of alcoholism. How do I get her treatment?

Question

She is 60 years old and been a drunk for a long time. Her psychiatrist says she can't stop cold turkey or it will probably kill her. Do I take her to the ER, then hope they detox her...She may not agree, but she can no longer live alone, drive or take care of herself. She is blacking out frequently and falling. Her stomach is a mess. Any suggestions for treatment centers near Sacramento? She is in Placer County. Thanks

Answer 1

Detoxing in a hospital is the easiest and safest way for her to do this.

It's probably her liver not her stomach.

Once she is safely detoxed the next step would be a long term rehab

( 3-6 months). I know you have good intentions but if your sister is not ready to stop drinking she will never stay in a rehab. If she has insurance to cover a rehab you might check with them. They also may help you figure out what your next steps are.

May I suggest asking other family members to help you, this is not something you can do alone. You should educate yourself in the steps that an alcoholic or addict goes through. There also maybe a lot of let downs, so be prepared. They say relapse is part of recovery and I can tell you from experience it's true.

For me it took a least a one year plan and I was willing to do this, in fact I asked my family for help.

Feel free to email me anytime.

Also stay away from rehabs called NARCONON or NEW LIFE they are SCIENTOLOGY. They have them all over the world.

Take care and never give up!

Answer 2

yes, you can take her to the hospital for detox.  you can also have her evaluated by a psychiartrist.  they can put her into a good treatment hospital.  when a person is a harm to themselves, she can get treatment.  but, you must be honest and tell the doctor how she is falling and blacking out. plus how she stays drunk.  inpatient is the best thing because they will medically detox her and watch over her.

your local ER will know where the treatment centers are.  the doctor that evaluates her will know the best treatment center for her.  blessings to you.  you are a really good sister.  

Answer 3

Retirement homes are very expensive but if she qualifies for Medicare then you might be in good shape and they will take good care of her.