OK this is the problem, my sister has a son outside of wedlock, she had him before she met her husband, and all through the marriage her hubby has always had a hard time accepting her son, they continually fight over everything about her son, mind u her son is only 11 yrs, and is a very good boy, and i am not biased as its my nephew, i just agree that he is a very good child, on and off he may feel a bit unloved b/c of his step dad,which may result into him rebelling at times, but overly he is a good boy. My sister has another child with her husband, and her oldest child( the 11yr old) feels unloved at times b/c he feels like his step dad do not love him, but always shows preference to his kid that he has with her.They have been going through problems, b/c of it, now the latest is last night their was an issue with the two boys fighting, my BIL automatically defended his child, and was yelling at the 11 yr old, my sister stepped in to try to calm the situation, and he yelled at her, and they ended up arguing with one another over the kids, and he left.this is something he has done many times before, now my sis is depressed and forever torn btwn her son and her hubby, she cries to me about it, and i try to be there for her in every way, i have tried talking to her and him together about this situation, but her husband is a very stubborn man.What do u think i should do to help her out.
He has left last night, and did not come home, like i said, its not anything new, as he has done this before, so what do u think i could do to help her, or atleast what advice can i give my hurting sis, i hate to see her in this situiation.Serious answers only pls.Thanks so much!
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