My sister is in love with my husband, how can I stop it? ?

Question

My sister is in love with my husband, how can I stop it? ?

Answer 1

Has your sister always liked your men?

Answer 2

she shouldn't be in love with your husband! wtf? question is where dose your husband stand in all of this?

Answer 3

well first of all you should ask your sister why is she doing this to you. do she still want you as a sister or an enemy. and then you should ask your husband do he want to be with your sister or you. then when you know what he or she want make the decision your sefl.it is not going to be easy but think of as you gave your best shot.

Answer 4

You can't stop her feelings but I sure wouldn't ler her around you or your husband.  

Answer 5

If you are totally sure about this, you'd better get her alone and tell her that you are aware of her feelings, but that she is totally 'out of line'.  That you will not tolerate her breaking up your marriage, if it means that you have to chose her or your husband, you would not think twice before telling her to get out of your life until she has grown up.

Now on the other had, tell your husband about this so that he can go out of his way not to 'add' to this by mistake.  He should ignore her existence!

Unfortunately, you are not saying how old everyone is in this scenario, but maybe your parents should also be told about this.  I am sure your parents didn't raise you 'girls' like this and they can also give their input to her about this.

Answer 6

that sucks....you can't stop it really.  Is she really in love with him or just have a huge crush on him? How old is she, and would he do anything with her as far as cheating if she were to come onto him?  

Answer 7

WoW. Me and my sister would have a long talk. As long as she doesn't disrespect me and my relationship with my husband than everything would be cool. But if she does cross the line it would be a serious problem. If i say what will happen someone will report me so ima just keep it to my self

Answer 8

State firm and clear boundaries and consequences for both your sister and your husband not to cross.  If your sister loves and respects you she will back off. Most likely it's just a little crush that will fade with time especially if she's young.  If she crosses the boundaries after you've set them let her know that she's not welcome in your life anymore.  Remember, she is your sister and if she loves you she wouldn't cross the line. Your husband picked you for a reason, relax and don't question him unless he's givien you a reason to.

Answer 9

eeeeww.  there's nothing you can do about that.  talk with your husband and make him aware of how this makes you feel so you both can handle this together and be on the same page.

Answer 10

tell them not to stop seein each other n if one day he say he is bout to go out with his boys follow him in see if he is really going out with them or call them first n see  

Answer 11

You tell her that she is not welcomed in your life.

Answer 12

Pack up and move far away from her if you think she's a threat.  

Answer 13

keep her away from him, tell her that the two of you are married and she needs to find her own man.

Answer 14

Your husband is the one to stop it.