My sister is ruining her life?

Question

my sister is doing her gcses at the moment. shes been acting really stressy lately, always arguing with my parents and just always trying to act like shes better than everyone and knows best, which she dont. shes constantly getting in trouble in school and is late all the time, she thinks she can worm her way out of it which she clearly hasnt, because they always catch up with her. shes losing friends because they just dont wanna be around her anymore. shes just so angry and its affecting her school life, they are saying she has potential but shes not doing anything to help herself, she says she is and they are exaggerating but she needs to admit shes wrong and she needs to change, but she wont accept it and she says she wont change for anyone because shes her and anyone who trys to change her can f*** themselves. i dont understand why its so hard to admit shes wrong? she wants to be a psychologist when shes older and we've told her if she carries on like this she wont. but she wont

Answer 1

she is just going through teenage rage......................i went through it and so did my lil sister(although i wasnt that bad and i was homeschooled for highschool)..............either this is just a phase she's going thorugh or somthing has happend that has made her mad at the world and cant talk about it to anyone cause she's to embarrased about it.......................dont push her to much but try to become her confidant or if it gets really bad.......................have her go to a counselor.....good luck........

Answer 2

depression,anxiety,emo,SUISIDAL!MAYBE CHECK ONLINE FOR SYMTOMS!

Answer 3

maybe she has a psychological disorder?  Or maybe she needs to learn the game of life the hard way?

Answer 4

This might be a phase. My daughter went through a phase at 15 where she was hanging around all the wrong kids, she was very snotty and always fighting with me. I kept up my rules and kept showing her that I loved her. One day (it took a while) she came around and decided her friends were jerks and that maybe I was not so bad. It takes patience, love and lots of communication, though mine was one sided for a while. Sometimes when you tell someone all the bad stuff they are doing they dig in their heels and think "I will show them" and it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. Switch it up and point out all the good things she does and and is and maybe she will come around. I wish you the best of luck.

Answer 5

maybe she is bi-polar. She sounds like my daughter-in-law. sad.No one wants to approach her or be around..and she won't take her meds..my poor sweet son.

Have you tried talking with her one on one?

Have your parents talked with the school counselors?

she needs to get some serious help.

what does your  parents think?

any teenage years are hard and confusing to a kid..its not easy for some.

Answer 6

i know what you're going through...the same thing is happening with my brother and my whole family just doesnt know what to do anymore.......i wish tht they would realize that they are hurting themselves && their family and friends...because everyone knows that they have potential.