My sister is such a jerk! I can't take it! HELP!?

Question

I'm 14 and my sister is 21.... she treats me terribly everyday and I cry everyday... she says stuff like "Oh your nothing but a useless emo crybaby" or "Your nothing but a mistake" or stuff... and her 3 year old child is nothing but a brat that has no discipline! He runs around the house naked throwing stuff at everyone... and my sister is over in her room asleep not caring about what he does! I tell her to discipline her son because he keeps hitting my dogs and her answer is "So... it isn't my problem... they aren't my dogs" or something... so she just goes back to sleep letting her child be a demon! She always calls me ugly and stupid and other stuff... and she cheats on all of her boyfriends... and her friends treat me like c**p also and she just starts laughing about it... and my mom tells her to move out everyday and shes like "No. I'm an adult I can do whatever I want." and stuff like that... and when it's late at night and I have school and my mom's at work... she blasts her radio super loud and I tell her to put it lower or something... and she's like "No. I don't care, it's not my problem if you do bad in school." and a whole bunch of other stuff... the stuff she says is waaaay worst... and she curses after every other word... like "Your a f--king b-tch! I f--king hate your stupid ***" and stuff like that... and she knows she makes me cry and shes like "Your nothing but a depressed child nothing you say bothers me." and stuff...

infact im crying right now...

Answer 1

well I don' think she cares about the effects she leaves on people obviously. I think she should grow up, and get out. If she's so mature, why is she living with mom? I mean, really, it's your mom's place, so she doesn't have the choice to say who can live there. this might sound weird, but I think Judge Judy would deal with this situation very well

and when she calls you bad words, you shouldn't take those offensively. she just says stuff like that caus she doesn't know how to use her words and come up with things that actually describe you.

Answer 2

oh no,i wouldnt let her run over you like.you and your mom need to sit her down,and tell her whats what.hope i helped

Answer 3

Your sister who is 21 acts like a 10 year old. Name calling.. bringing people down. What the h**l. My sisters whose 16 tells me not to say hate and any cuss words. Im sorry your going through this but you shouldnt be crying. Ignore what she tells you cause you know that its not true. Stop letting her bring you down. She probably hates the way shes living so shes bringing you down.. Ignore thats all you have to do.

Goood luck [x

Answer 4

Awww. *hugs* from the cool people here at YA. Your sisiter is acting like a ten year old brat. (kinda reminds me of mines). Why is she having kids when she's acting like one herself. I wont advise you to talk to your sister, the way shes behaving right now towards you says that she wont even listen to what you have to say. talk to your mom, say what you have just told us and tell her how its affecting you and your school work. try to become more thick-skinned and dont let anything her and her stupid friends say get to you.  keep your head up and try your best to do good in school, in a couple of years, you'll be old enough to go off to college or get your own place. where will your sister be? probably still living at home, with no job and maybe more kids.  

Answer 5

find a good time to talk to your sister and fixed it over god who would defend each other's back but 'siblings' right? and hang out w/ each other..

Answer 6

don't listen to her and if she keeps getting on you like tell her off for example like she's a loser a mess up mother who gets off picking on younger people  tell her usless she is like come on she lives at home with mama 4real how responsible can she be. and she picks on you what a sh**head after you do all that be at peace and 4 the radio cut the speaker wires then blame it on her child

Answer 7

Hey!  Don't get near your sister.  She is poison.

Anyhow, just form a very very tough skin and remember where your goals are.

She is a loser, and remember that you are not anything she says.  

Answer 8

just  tell  here

Answer 9

It sounds to me that your sister has a major problem dealing with her life, and she's taking it out on you.

Remember that the nasty things that she says to you can only hurt you if you believe them to be true. Think about it, if something is ludicrously untrue it's laughable. Whereas if something hits a nerve in you maybe you need to reassess those feelings about yourself. My advice would be not to react to her comments but consider the hurtful things from your perspective. For instance: if she calls you stupid, don't react just think whether or not 'you' think you're stupid. If you don't there's no issue and if you do then she's pointed out a vulnerability in you that you can set about improving.

If she doesn't get the reaction she expects from you I think that the insults will stop ;)

Answer 10

i know how you feel my brother is just like that my brother is 14 and i am 9 i cry all the time  i just asked a question just like that if you get a good answer email me my email is [e-mail] so let me know