My sister is thinking of commiting suicide?!?

Question

My sister is always talking down on herself.Shes always saying that shes not normal like other people are and she cant understand stuff like other people do and i told her who cares what other people know or do focus on yourself.She says that shes weird and stuff and she thinks that every little thing is weird and she just cares about too many things that arent important. She told me recently that she thinks she has no purpose in this world and she said shes thinking of committing suicide.When she told me i burst into tears and whenever she mentions it i get tears in my eyes.i don't know what to do ive try ed everything,i try ed talking to her about it and telling her what shes saying is not right and i keep on giving her advice but i think that im not getting through to her at all! please tell me what to do i'm desperate :(

Answer 1

The very best thing you can do is tell your parents or school counselor. When I was 14, my oldest  sister told everyone for mos  she wanted to committed suicide... after mos of hearing her say this to me, I made a terrible mistake... I told her to just do it then!  It was only a few days later that she did it!  When someone says they are suicidal, don't ever minimize what they say.  It truly is a matter of life or death... (even if you think it's just for attention,)  tell someone.  Be safe, not sorry... God bless you, Joni

Answer 2

you need to talk to someone who can help here...your parents, your school counselor...someone at church (or where ever you worship)...someone needs to know.  Don't keep this between the two of you.  You will feel horrible if you kept this a secret and she does kill herself.

Answer 3

Call an ambulance to your house if shes acting suicidal so she can be put in extensive care and be watched. They'll release her and possibly put her on an anti depresant and send her to group therapy where she can learn to be happier and deal with problems more effectively

Answer 4

God does not want the death of the sinner but to become and be saved

God loves the post that gave him life and believe in his own image and likeness, died by it on the cross for the remission of their sins and now wants to commit the greatest of sins

the murder of himself for this sin because there can be no repentance and penance

know that when this life pass her soul will be put on trial and there will be given their eternal reward: heaven, purgatory or h**l

if the choice of love for God not you think

this is the last and most effective

brother but it is painful for everybody's sake

read and know what to do next

The second solution is to talk of h**l!

Sister Faustina's Vision of h**l

"I, Sister Faustina Kowalska, by the order of God, have visited the Abysses of h**l so that I might tell souls about it and testify to its existence...the devils were full of hatred for me, but they had to obey me at the command of God, What I have written is but a pale shadow of the things I saw. But I noticed one thing: That most of the souls there are those who disbelieved that there is a h**l." (Diary 741)

The Apostle of Divine Mercy

St. Maria Faustina Kowalska

of the

Congregation of the Sisters of Our Lady of Mercy

"Today, I was led by an angel to the Chasms of h**l. It is a place of great torture; how awesomely large and extensive it is! The kinds of tortures I saw:

The First Torture that constitutes h**l is:

The loss of God.

The Second is:

Perpetual remorse of conscience.

The Third is

That one's condition will never change.

The Fourth is:

The fire that will penetrate the soul without destroying it. A terrible suffering since it is a purely spiritual fire, lit by God's anger.

The Fifth Torture is:

Continual darkness and a terrible suffocating smell, and despite the darkness, the devils and the souls of the damned see each other and all the evil, both of others and their own.

The Sixth Torture is:

The constant company of Satan.

The Seventh Torture is:

Horrible despair, hatred of God, vile words, curses and blasphemies.

These are the Tortures suffered by all the damned together, but that is not the end of the sufferings.

Indescribable Sufferings

There are special Tortures destined for particular souls. These are the torments of the senses. Each soul undergoes terrible and indescribable sufferings related to the manner in which it has sinned.

I would have died

There are caverns and pits of torture where one form of agony differs from another. I would have died at the very sight of these tortures if the omnipotence of God had not supported me.

No One Can Say There is No h**l

Let the sinner know that he will be tortured throughout all eternity, in those senses which he made use of to sin. I am writing this at the command of God, so that no soul may find an excuse by saying there is no h**l, or that nobody has ever been there, and so no one can say what it is like...how terribly souls suffer there! Consequently, I pray even more fervently for the conversion of sinners. I incessantly plead God's mercy upon them. O My Jesus, I would rather be in agony until the end of the world, amidst the greatest sufferings, than offend you by the least sin." (Diary 741)

if she commits suicide to kill a man and thus would be a murder in the eyes of god

PRAY A GOD FOR THE SOUL OF YOUR SISTER

pray ,pray

protects the Immaculate Conception!!

the h**l is not the solution!!

Answer 5

Sweetie, Go tell your parents, People who get this down on them selves think no one will notice they are gone, BUT THEY DO!

Go tell your parents, a teacher ANYONE that will listen to you, and if you dont think they are doing anything about it tell someone else.

PLEASE, You do not want the pain my family feels after this happened. Her being mad at you is far far better then this pain.

Answer 6

Tell her why she shouldn't and that so many people would miss her.

Tell her she does have a purpose in the world and tell her very specifically what it is.

Basically, tell her what she means to you and that you couldn't live your life without her.

Let her know that you're always there for her because that's probably just what she needs.

And if she told you about it, she's probably not actually considering it enough to go through with it.

Answer 7

okay well first of all it is very good that you are noticing. that in itself is very helpful because now there is someone there for her. i know you have probably tried talking to her as much as you can, but it never hurts to keep trying. try to get her to talk about what bothers her and do you best to suggest things that will make her feel better.

also plan some fun things for you guys to do together. something you know she will enjoy like a nice walk or shopping.

if nothing works and she stays like this, you have to go to your parents or school counselor. you do not want to wait until it is too late to get help. you may feel bad about telling them but it is the right thing to do and will help you both in the long run

good luck and i hope everything works out!

=]

Answer 8

duh don't let her and TELL YOUR PARENTS....

Answer 9

I think you should tell your parents right away, and have her see a counselor.  She probably wont want to see a counselor so you might have to trick her into seeing one.  Remind her that she is loved, and she does have a reason to be on this earth.

Answer 10

Tell your parents and get her some help immediately.  You are a good sister to try to get help for her.

There are suicide hot lines.

1-800-SUICIDE

1-800-784-2433  

1-800-273-TALK

1-800-273-8255

She may need to be placed on medications and she needs to get some counseling.  Being "weird" is not a bad thing.  

Honestly, I would like to know what "normal" really is.

She sounds insecure about herself and depressed.  Keep being there for her and tell her that you would be devastated if she ever carried out her threat.  Doesn't your love for her count at all?

Pray for her as I will also say some prayers for her and for you.

Hugs to you and your sister.