My sister makes of me because...?

Question

I am 17 and haven't kissed anyone yet. I have also never smoked/drank/or had s*x. I can admit to never having a bf and the most i've ever done was hug a guy, and we were just friends. Am I abnormal? My sister said she had a bf at 15 and started making out with guys frequently soon after.. She also said that she began drinking around 16/17. She makes me feel horrible.

Answer 1

girl u aint gotta be a follower u do u and let her do her...you doing the right thing be the bigger person

Answer 2

No, you arent abnormal!

You have self-respect and a lot of it!

Trust me, keep your virginity for marriage. I believe that the best gift you can give your spouse is your virginity.

Its not weird or abnormal. Its very VERY mature of you.

According to my beliefs, your sister is the one doing the wrong thing.

In the Holy Bible, Thessalonians Chapter 4 says tha God wants us to live a pure and holy life, and base your marriage on love, not lust.

Think about what i said.

xx

Answer 3

Well, in that case, your sister's just an idiot.

There's no problem with not doing those things yet. I would be proud if I were you! Smoking? Eh, there are better ways to die. Drinking? Not legal anyway, and a stupid move. And love comes when it comes. Don't even worry about it.

Answer 4

Dont be! Your just playing it safe soon people will start calling you s**y and guys might want to ask you out more! You will probably have 20 guys at your footsteps!

Answer 5

h**l no, lol im younger then you, and tht makes me feel like a w***e. cuz ive done some pretty bad things, like almost all the way..

but heyy

not being in the s*x-scene

just means your strong!

Answer 6

Don't let her pressure you into anything.

Many girls do start those things earlier, but that's not necessarily healthy.

Do ONLY what you feel comfortable doing.

Answer 7

I am the same way with my lil sis, she does everything, a lot of things I have never, and probably never will. I think you will end up happier though. I was sad like I'm just the biggest nerd, but once I grew up I realize that she rushed herself and is constantly paying consequences for her actions. I on the other hand, found sum1 who like me for me and not just a so called glamorous image. Anyway, you are cool, just wait and life will find you perfectly.

Answer 8

Dont follow Your sisters lead your are doing fine when you are ready love will find you and tell your sister to knock it off.

I didnt even date until I was seventeen. I met my husband over 30 years ago and we are still in love so take it slow and the right guy will come along , its not a race with your sis. Everyone has their own time clock. No one is the same.Tale back your power and dont allow her to control your happiness. Stand tall and be proud the you have waited to mature before making grown up choices before you were ready. Be proud of your self!.  

Answer 9

Your sister sounds like she is way to fast for her own good, If I were you i'd advise not to follow in her footsteps and just to do whatever you think is comfortable for your age, that way you don't feel pressured into doing something you feel you have no business doing.

Answer 10

Don't feel "horrible" about someone else drinking at 16/17 when you haven't. You should be proud that you haven't smoked/drank/or had s*x at the age of 17 because you are too young for all that. Feel good about yourself for who you are because that's all that matters.

Answer 11

dont follow into your sisters foot steps

make your own path

drinking kills your brain cells believe it or not your grades will start to sink

and also kissing leads to something else that you may not be ready for

alot of people think there ready and when its all said and done they figure out there not ready

Answer 12

Don't listen to your sister. I am sure you are probably already doing better in life than your sister is and acheiving more. If you aren't ready for s*x then don't have it. You'll be better off because the people you have s*x with at that age are likely not the people you would want to share your life with. Also the chances of getting pregnant or catching STDs are real so you are safer for it. Drinking is over-rated and you usually don't wake up appreciating the decisions that you made, things that you did, or said, not to mention the hangovers. Good for you for not smoking, don't ever start.

Answer 13

Don't listen to her ignore her about it you are you and she is herself people are diffrent. Its better to wait until you find the right person than regret it later.

Answer 14

She's miss fast *** and has a bad reputation already.  Be proud of yourself and PLEASE don't give in to the peer pressure.

Answer 15

If you're weird for not doing any of that at 17 then I'm also weird. Why are you so envious of your sister drinking and having s*x? You do realize that drinking doesn't make you cool and meaningless s*x is nowhere near as good as it is when you have it with someone you care about and who cares about you. Most likely in a few years she'll look back and wish she had done things your way.

Answer 16

You know what great for you. Its awesome your not doing any of that c**p just because everyone else is. Your sister is the one ruining her life. She should make you feel great. When she ends up with a DUI, lung cancer, pregnant or with a std. You'll be glad your not like her. About the whole guy thing don't worry there is someone for everyone. The right guy will come around :) Sober, Healthy, Well rounded girls are much more attractive then drunk, s***s who smell like smoke

Answer 17

UR JUST YOU

Answer 18

tell her that makes her a drunk w***e :)

i think its awesome that your genuin.

Answer 19

its not bad. your just waiting :D which is a good thing.  

Answer 20

dont worry at all. it just means you aint easy. chances are when you do find that guy hes gonna treat you really good. just go at YOUR own pace and when your ready, your ready. =] and you are NOT horrible.

Answer 21

wow 17? no kissing/drinking/drugs/smoking/s*x?

you're like the perfect teen.A PLUS!=D

i wish i had that kind of record

Answer 22

You are incredible! That is so great that you have never done any of those things! Don't listen to your sister! She is going to end up pregnant, and you are going to be graduating college, and marrying a guy you are totally in love with! Also, your sister could get arrested for underage drinking, and you will be at home, having fun with your friends! You are totally not abnormal, and you are a very rare individual not to have done any of those things. Good for you! : )

Answer 23

you should be happy and blessed that you are still "pure" many people  regret doing most of the things you named. You are not the only one, ive never had s*x (planning to keep it that way)and ive only smoked one time and drank just a couple and im 21. So be proud that you know for sure you dont have any STD's, you have all your brain cells and that your liver is is good condition.

Answer 24

You are totally normal. She shouldn't be making fun of you just because you have made some good decisions in your life. Just don't worry about it.

Answer 25

Ignore it.

When she gets older she'll def regret doing those things.

Be proud that your waiting! Alot of girls loose it(virginity) ,and they could end up preggo. or have STD.

Answer 26

dont worry about it i was the same way

then i got my boyfriend at 17

and things slowly changed

i still dont drink or smoke or do drugs and im 18 now

Answer 27

You should feel horrible. It must be so uncomfortable to watch your older sister act with less maturity than you do.

FYI, I've never smoked, I don't drink, and I didn't kiss anyone until I was 21. I preferred to wait for someone worth kissing :)