My sister that was put up for an adoption...?

Question

Has finally found My mother, This was all in the last 2 years. Ive emailed her on myspace, and said hi here and there on the phone at my moms. But ive never actually had a conversation with her myself. She wants me to call her or her call me once a week to get to know each other better. I don't know what to even say. Its great though, I want her in my life! But i just dont know what to say to her.. Ive got 2 brothers and hope someday to be close to her Since she is my Big sister.. What do i say?!?

Answer 1

Just start by getting to know her, ask what schools she went to growing up, what are her hobbies, favourite movies, music etc... You will find things out about each other then can talk about the stuff you have in common.  Also work and family life are good topics, do either of you have kids?

Answer 2

Wow that's amazing! Really cool : ] Don't say anything just because you think it's the right thing to say. Like don't tell her 'I love you' unless you truly mean it, you know? But tell her that you think it's amazing you found each other and want to be close, and then just talk about something you would ordinarliy talk about at first, like school and boys, then when you get closer [which you will, sister is the closest bond apparently =P] you can talk about other things, future goals, what her life was like, you know what I mean.

I still think that is so cool :D gooood luck!