her son is 6 years old in first grade, appearently at his school children gets their yellow cards for good behavior to take home to the parents, well Isaac has an attention problem, and is appearently disruptive in class and doesn't get this yellow card to take home very often his teacher complains about him alot to my sister.
so i was talking on the phone with sis because we don't see each other often when she told me that Isaac didn't come home with a yellow card and that she spanked him for it, and that she spanks him everyday if he doesn't bring home a yellow card.. i was so shocked! i mean i am not against a spanking for a proper reason but this just seems too be resorting to spanking for the entirely wrong reason, it is very negative inforcement. the she told me she told the teacher what she does and his teacher encouraged this!! i got upset but calmly tried to give her other options and she told me when my children where older i would "change my tune"
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