My sister wants to be friends with my best friend and visa versa?

Question

Okay so whenever I fight with my best friend, my sister gets involved, like she will read my IM's and text messages from her and then she will text her back or IM her back. She is adopted so she doesn't always live with us. My sister is 12 and my best friend and I are 14 in October. She texts my best friend and tries to be friends with her. It drives me crazy. My mom says they are just doing this to make me jealous and to annoy me. I have tried talking to both of them about it but they won't listen. My sister keeps saying "why cant I be friends with her" Why jenna....tell me why" . My sister is quiet around people she doesn't know well but also has a wild side when she feels confertable. My best friend is very outgoing and loud. I don't want them to be friends cuz it is a weird feeling for me. What should I do??? Please help!!!!!!!

Answer 1

ive been in that situation tell ur friend thats its bothering u so badly and if it bothers u so much get a new IM name and phone number take extreme measures i think i wood have tortured my sister forever if she ever did that to me its the worst thing in the world it seems make her no that shes on ur turf and ur not allowing it

Answer 2

that could happen, just talk to ur sister about it

Answer 3

I know its hard to accept your best friend being friends with your sister but its natural, a lot of people deal with that every day. Maybe your best friend is the kind of friend she wants. You can't stop someone from being someone else's friend even if you don't like it. It's really none of your business even if it is your sister. Its her decision, and you cant stop her. Unless if she is trying to get her to not like you or something there is no valid reason for you to interfere.  

Answer 4

Geez can't we all just get along.....keep our noses on our face and we will get along just fine....I think you are acting like a 12 year old and being childish if they want to be friends let them be why would you want to stop that?  the weird feeling you have is jealousy that she may like your sister more than she likes you and get along better and have more in common....stop acting like a spoiled brat and leave them be.

Answer 5

There's nothing you can do.

People become friends for

various reasons.  

If you keep telling them not

to became friends, they'll

probably become best

friends.  

Don't comment on their

friendship.  Be happy

to have a sister that cares

about you, your friends.  

Answer 6

Why be jealous? Your family gets along with your best friend. I would think that is wonderful.