My sisters always put me down and criticise me, make fun of me etc how can i be bigger than them?

Question

they always tell me I'm gonna fail, too stupid, never gonna get there, ugly, too dark, etc etc

how can i prove them wrong and become bigger than them and show them that I'm better?

Answer 1

Use their comments as motivation, every time you feel tempted to pass up an oppertunity to better yourself, think of your sisters and what they'd say.  Im the youngest in the family and the same happened to me, but I make more money now than both my brothers and am the only one who hasn't suffered a divorce, because I was determined to be better than them

Answer 2

Ignore them and do do better than them.

They are probably jealous of you for some reason. And by the way, dark is beautiful!

Answer 3

Ignore them, do your thing and don't hang out with them too much.

Answer 4

I think I'd stay away from them as much as you can.  The best revenge would be to succeed and make more money than they do and then buy them $2 presents at Christmas and buy other people nicer things.

Answer 5

Your sisters are jealous of you so they criticize you in a nasty mean way hoping to destroy any self confidence you may have. You need to ignore them completely, walk out of the room or leave the house when they start in on you and never ever respond to anything they say. The less you say and react, the less fun and satifaction they will have from tormenting you. You surround yourself with positive people, friends, etc and go your own way; obviously you are superior to them in every way so just know that in your heart and ignore and avoid them as much as you can until you're old enough to move out.

Answer 6

I realy understand I have two people who put me down everyday my mom and dad they call me stupid and your never going to get out of high school I just say keep what their saying in mind and try to focess on proving them wrong show them that you smart and can be whàtever you want and im dark too snap your fingers and say dark is beutiful b*****s

Answer 7

Just ignore them. Don't react to what they are saying. They're just hoping to get a reaction out of you. If you don't react, they will eventually stop.

OR you could even pretend as though you like their comments. Just say like "Thank you so much!" or something like that.

Answer 8

If you want to catch them by surprise, laugh. Like you mean it.

Answer 9

You can be better than them by not doing the same things back. By showing that you won't stoop to the level of name calling and taunting, it shows that you have real class.

As for them, write things down in a diary about how you feel when they call you that. It helps with the emotions that you feel, trust me.

Answer 10

Ignore them.  That's the only way to be bigger than them.