My so-called friends..?

Question

my friends have been leaving me out lately.i want to be frieds with them again because without them i wont have any friends.i dot want to meet new friends because im like on of the popular people and if i do make friends with them i will be nerdy and i dont want that.can someone tell me some usefull and good advice without saying ''meet the nerdy people'' and that ''popularity dosent matter''

Answer 1

i'm sure with your attitude, even the "nerdy" wouldnt want to be your friend.  i guess you're not as popular as you think.

Answer 2

Wow that last part of your thing was rather shallow...I can't wait for you to grow up and open your eyes.

However, there probably is a reason you're being left out. Talk to the one that is avoiding you less and see what you did or what they think you did. It could be just a misunderstanding that got blown out propration.

Answer 3

Real popular people go out AND make friends...

Sorry, matey, you've put you're self in a very difficult position.

I'd say try to be nice to your remaining friends and at the same to try to be friendly to other people...

Answer 4

You in high school? or primary school? Well I guess it doesn't really matter anyway but I've recently gone through the same thing. My friends started ignoring me suddenly, maybe we have differences they even organized an outing behind my back which I blew up with fury. I decided to leave them, they weren't friends. I left and went to a larger group, they were a lot nicer, not more popular or less popular. I guess if you don't want to go to the so-called-nerdies, then look out for other groups but DO NOT STAY with those so-called-friends, you'll regret it.

PS. My so-called-friends and I are friends again but not as close as we were, I don't hang with them anymore though, I don't want it happening again. Now these so-called-friends come and hang with my new group of friends sometimes, what lonley people.  

Answer 5

hi

i know you don't want to hear this but popularity really doesn't matter as long as you have at least one good friend coz when i was at skool i was a popular girl but now my best mate was one of the nerds . you need to get your priorities right , if they are not friends then **** them off and find new ones  , good luck

Answer 6

I THINK U NEED TO TALK TO AT LEAST ONE OF YOUR FRIENDS AND ASK THEM WHATS GOING ON,,OR DID  I HURT SOMEONES FEELINGS BY SAYING SOMETHING,,JUST TRY TO FIND OUT WHY THEY ARENT ASKING U TO JOIN THEM,,,I T COULD B JUST A MISSUNDERSTANDING,,,GOOD LUCK,,,,PEACE

Answer 7

why do you care what other people think? i graduated two years ago and trust me you wont even talk to half of those people. your true friends will be around! so make friends dis regard clicks live your life by your standards not anyone else's! :) have a good day let go of those so called friends and get real ones  

Answer 8

i think u need to get over urself and may b ur find out those so called nerdy ppl r a h**l of alot better then ur so called friends.

Answer 9

Popularity really doesn't matter. What matters most is if they accept you for who you are, and what you are deep inside.

Answer 10

Hello, I really think you need to tell you're friends that they are leaving you out, also tell them how you are feeling...Don't let them get to you like that, if they are you're friends they would listen and understand how you feel. I would try and work things out, but i'm sure if you opened up and looked around there would be way more popular people around that you haven't noticed 'cause you've always thought you and you're 'popular' friends are on top. I'm just telling you the truth.

So if they don't listen like friends should, or don't consider bringing you back into the group, i really think you could make better friend than them... Friends listen and are loyal, plus trustworthy, think very carefully about it, and i bet u would agree

From Emm  

Answer 11

LOOK U ARE NOT UP TO THE MARK WITH YOUR POPULAR FRIENDS OK!!!!

IF U ARE SO NEEDY TO BE POPULAR THEN U JUST BE A LONER OK....DONT BE THIS IDIOT THAT DOES AROUND MAKING FUN OF "NERDY" PEOPLE OK!!! IT WILL COME BACK TO YOU ONE DAY!!!

U WANT TTO GO BACK IF THEY TREAT U LIKE **** YOUR (POPULAR FRIENDS I MEAN) & IF U STILL WANT TO BE WITH THEM JUST BECAUSE U WANT TO BE POPULAR THEN U DESERVE WHAT U GET!!!

YOUR FRIENDS & FATE IS IN YOUR HANDS NOT OTHERS OK!!!