My social life sucks?

Question

i honestly think i have no life at all. I have friends I'm not a loser or anything its just i think I'm just surviving life that enjoying it. i don't know what i can do. i mean i don't get nervous I'm fine as a person its just i never had a close friend and i barely get out of the house. i only have two more years of high school left and I'm wondering how can i makes those two years left the best?? the help would be appreciated thanks

Answer 1

Join clubs at school. There you will find people with interests like yours.

Volunteer at a hospital or community based organization that helps others.

You need all this on your resume when you leave school anyway so why not use it to your advantage.

Sounds like you are mainly bored. This is how you stop boredom. You get out there and join other people. They will not come to you you have to go to them.

Answer 2

I suggest you become a 'magnet' and try to attract people. Be good and do good. Help ever and hurt never.

Try to become a centre of attraction. That can be gained only by improving your personality. Personality can be improved by increasing good behavioral attitude and maintaing good habits.

Try to give importance to even small things in life and try to be pure in your thinking and perfect in your action. Do not take up small responsibilities, rather take up only highly challenging tasks.

Answer 3

Don't put so much pressure on yourself.  I was (and still am) shocking at making and more importantly keeping friends.  If you do not feel comfortable in certain situations don't force yourself to sit through them.  

In my experience friends come and go but family is what lasts.

My advice to you would be to to enjoy your last two years as much as possible.  After school your life will completley change whatever you decide to do.  

Answer 4

I guess besides trying to connect with people at school, you can get an after school job or join a sport or club. That way your with a more small group of people and it's easier to talk and feel comfortable. Just be yourself, and you'll eventually find people who share the same interests as you. I know that was pretty vague advice but i tried...hope it helped a little =)

Answer 5

Just study and make sure you learn as much as you can. It may seem boring now, but you'll regret it if you don't make sure you study and get a good degree from college after you graduate. Be sociable, but don't worry too much about making best friends in High School because odds are you will never see any of them ever again.

Answer 6

you need to get rid of this emo act and get off the drugs kid. life can be brutal. get used to it.