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My son, i failed him, feel like the worlds worst mom?

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my son hasn't spoke to me in over a year. he said that i was dead to him. he disrespected me in my home and i told him he had to move out. i wish i had done things different but now its to late. i fear that i have lost my son forever. need your opinion

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Just talk to him. If you have to,go to his house so he can't hang up on you or ignore you,but whatever you do,DON'T send some1 else to do it,it will make evrything worse.

Tell him that you're sorry,basically the stuff you said here. Its extremely important that he knows how you feel,and you know how he feels!please,please be one of those great parents who are able to apologize,but makes sure he also knows what you think and what he did wrong as well. I hope things get better!
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I think you did the right thing!!!  He was disrespecting you and really abusing you!!!  what else could you have done??  He had no respect for you!!!

Send him a card in the mail saying you love him.  If he's matured, he'll respond.

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your not a bad mother. you did your best and did what you thought was right. just call him and tellh im how you feel. tell him you wish you can take everything back and want t start over. tell him you just want him to have the best life possible. but i can tel you love your son and tryed your best so basically thats all you can do is try your best. the rest is up to him. hes older now and mature enough to know that he shoud talk to his mother. but you care about your son. as long as its like taht your not a bad mother at all. someday he will realize it.
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LISTEN TO ME!!! AS LONG AS YOUR SON LIVES IT IS NOT TOO LATE. WRITE A LETTER.CALL HIM. GO TO HIM!!! DO IT NOW!!!!! PLEASE! DO ALL THAT YOU CAN !!!!!
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Ok you gave too little information. There was obviously some conflict for a long time to get to this extreme decision. Can you think over the years he spent with you, how you relationship with him devolved? It didn't happen overnight, but do you know all the conflicts and how both of you felt at those times?
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