My son 16 has left shool and has looked

Question

for one job in two months, and my child benefit is going to finish soon but i will get it if he goes to college or goes down to connections i will still get it but he wont go and i am getting worried i am too soft what should i do

Answer 1

If he isn't going back to school or college then make him go out and get a job.

You are far too soft, I would have sent him down the jobcentre as soon as he finished school.

Even if he does go back to education he should of got a summer job at least, you are just letting the lazy little sod get away with it.

Answer 2

for his benefit, he needs to be ins choice, but frankly, at 16 you can't force him

Besides, reading your post, it sounds like you are more interested in the money form the child benefit than the future of your son.

Get a job your self

Answer 3

hes 16, get his *** back in school and done let him ruin his life, get your own job and stop living off the government, try setting an example for him if you want him to do better.