On Saturday my 6 year old's son's school had a "Meet The Teachers" coffee. I attended because my son is having a teacher none of my older children had. I was talking with her and I said "If you ever need any help with class parties or anything like that, I can help. I'm not always selected as room mother, but I do enjoy volunteering around the school." The teacher laughed and said "This is first grade, they don't need volunteers. Infact, I'm not even sure we'll have any class parties. These kids need to learn the good old fashioned way-no parties and no pathetic mommies and daddies coming in to volunteer." I almost smacked her, but then my oldest daughter's old teacher called me over to discuss the back-to-school bingo night.
The teacher's words have been bothering me. The kids in the class are 6 and 7. They deserve parties. It's a first grade tradition for the whole first grade to have a big holiday party. I talked with the other two first grade teachers and they said that they found that strange as well.
I'm not sure what to do. The teacher used to teach high school(she's new to the school), so I think that's why she's so strict. I've been thinking about requesting a teacher switch(you can do that, if you feel the teacher will be too tough on your child and I believe she will be on my son). I've heard about the teacher and have heard nothing good.
Please help! I'm really stuck on what I'm supposed to do. I'm not a teacher, but I am on the PTA. HELP!
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