My son 3y old first he likes to go to school but now he is crying in the school why?

Question

My son 3y old first he likes to go to school but now he is crying in the school why?

Answer 1

oh! its nothing. 4 every child it will quiet different from being at home than at school. he experience a new world in school. soon he'll like 2 go 2 school n' wont cry. my cousin,3y,at first he cried but now he likes school much

Answer 2

He is crying because he is unhappy.  Something has happened to upset him.  At 3 he may not tell you, but take notice of his not wanting to go.  NEVER force a child into preschool or to stay with anyone they are uncomfortable with.  It is not important whether he gets institutionalised early childhood education, what is important is that he is a very small child and needs to be happy.  No child cries when they are happy and settled, thats common sense !!!!

Answer 3

My son started goin to school when he turned 15 months. He normally liked school. But until he turned 3 years we used have this crying sessions coming back every couple of mnths. They lasted for 2 weeks and then he would be fine again. It could be something at school or home that brings this change in their mood. Once they forget it they should be fine. It also happens when they have a break from school.

Rgds

Deepali

www.momadewizkids.com

Answer 4

maybe he bad a traumatic experience.

i use to cry and say i dont want to go to starlight today,

every

single

day.

it was my daycare, and all i can remember is the ladies being really mean and feeding us nasty food.

Answer 5

:-)  I'm not really overly concerned but you may want to discuss this with the teacher to see if their has been a change in schedule/routine or a new teacher/aide.  This all affects the child.  

I find that around 3 years old...they are beginning to mature and are very sensitive.  I've had many a child come to school/daycare, even for a couple years, and be just fine until around the time they turn 3.  Then into the crying bouts and such.  Remember ...growing up is hard to do!  Be empathetic but firm, and like one individual mentioned, make drop off time quick and cheerful.  More often than not the child is completely different after 15 minutes or less.  I have one child presently who shows up and kicks and screams and cries...doesn't want to be here until he hears to door shut and he's back to himself.  Smiling and laughing like nothing happened.  :-)  The stinker!  Got to love them!

Answer 6

Your 3yrs.son can only go to play group & not for regular class.this is the age to develop the child.

Answer 7

ask him what is wrong if he doesn't say anything and this keeps going on try moving him to a different one

Answer 8

maybe he got bullied or someone was mean to him

my brother was dunny flushed by a year 6 kid when he was in kindergarten and never wanted to go back

but he probably had someone be mean to him or say something mean to him or he might just like your company so much he never wants to leave you or he might be scared your not going to pick him up again

where you late picking him up one day

this could make him scared that you may forget him and never pick him up again

Answer 9

here are some solutions:

his teacher might be mean

he might have gotten bullied

he might be scared of something or someone

or the most common:

he might miss having u around. this might sound mean bt try not to always let him see u b4 he leaves for school. or if u drop him off, get him distracted.

Answer 10

Maybe your son misses you when he leaves to go to school. Or maybe he misses something else like a blanket or a stuffed animal. Sometimes kids don't like their teachers, the other students, or the subject their on or doing. So you should probably ask him. That is if he talks. If he dosen't talk, you should probably question his teacher about what he crys about or what he says when he crys.

Answer 11

has anything new happened in his life?  new baby, new home, new babysitter, grandma is sick and you are away, did you get a new job?  If not, then he's just going through a phase and dropping him off and leaving quickly is your best bet.  talk to his teacher and make sure nothing is going on there and ask for her/him to keep an extra eye on things to make sure noone is bullying him or not letting him play or something.  Sometimes, a heads up from a parent can open the teacher's eyes to something happening that she hadn't noticed before. Good luck.

Answer 12

I was a preschool teacher for three years and my experience with this is as follows-Little Johnny loves school because its new and novel.  He likes the cool toys and play equipment, but, oh shoot, I have to come every day???  EEK!  Now Johnny hates coming because he misses home and mom.  Explain to him why he comes, when you will return and make sure it is a fast dropoff and don't linger.  The longer you stay, the more control he/she has over you and the worse you feel.

Answer 13

because he is probably being bullied or the teacher told him he couldn't do somthing he was allowed to do at home i would suggest talking to the teacher she would know!

Answer 14

It's more heartbreaking for you than your child, I'm sure!

Ask his teacher how long the crying spells have been lasting and what would help your child feel better.  The teachers see things that you don't when you are not there.  

Some kids cry all year long, even though they love school.  Unless, your child or his teacher tells you something is seriously wrong, don't worry.

Answer 15

my mum has the same problem with my little sister. now she doesnt cry as much but does cry the occasional time. my mum asked her why she didnt like it and she said because i miss you. lol

so buy a reward chart off ebay personalised and tell him if he goes school like a good boy he will get a treat at the end of the week or month or watever u wish. goood luck x

Answer 16

hi , maybe somebody is being real mean to him . really to answer your questions you would have to ask your little 3 year old son why he cry's in school .

have a nice day

Answer 17

Maybe there is something or someone at home that he likes.. Does he have any brothers that don't go to school?

He might be just afraid and he will get used to it, or maybe something at school scares him...

OR The most likely solution i think is that he doesn't want to go away from you.