i have 4 boys. 8, 7, 4, and 2. recently my husband was killed in iraq and so its just been me and the kids. my 7 year old has been kind of distant, doesnt really want to play with the other kids, having behavior problems, etc. i know its because hes upset and grieving but i also think that the other kids are more important than him. ive had a hard time with the situation as well and so my parents took the kids for the weekend so i could have some time to myself. my 7 yr old did not want to go. he wanted to stay at home with me. i sent him anyways because i really needed alone time to sort things out and get things done. and now they are back and he will barely talk to me. he will only talk to me when i ask him questions and it will be one-word answers. i know hes mad at me and i dont know what to do. my other boys arent acting like this. i try spending one on one time with him but its not easy with 3 kids.
how can i make my son feel better about my other kids and stop beingupset w/ me
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