My son is going through a stage of wanting to give me kisses all the time?

Question

Could anything be wrong? He's 7 years old.

It can get a bit annoying when I'm trying to do something and he'll cilmb on me and start kissing me!

Answer 1

Cant believe you said kisses from your son are annoying!!!! My son is 9 and still comes to me and kisses me all the time. I'm enjoying it now while i can. Now the only way i could see him kissing you bothersome, is if hes trying to kiss you with tongue. Now Ive seen that before. The kids see it on movies and don't know that's not appropriate. But other than that come on. If you really are bothered by it take him to the doctor. I'm no professional so i don't know for sure, but i think hes fine. I just think he needs affection. GOOD LUCK!!!

Answer 2

awww!! that's just being sweet!! just wait until he's a teen! you'll be wanting those kisses back!!

Answer 3

There's nothing wrong with that, as long as it's appropriate kissing.

When he is annoying you, tell him that you need some "mommy time" and you will gladly kiss him when you are done. You don't want to make him feel like it's a bad thing.

Also too, enjoy it while it lasts, he'll grow up and not want a hug nevermind a kiss! :)

Answer 4

Appreciate it while you still can. He just loves you and wants to express that, you won't find kisses annoying when he thinks he's too old to give you one. Tell him that sometimes you're busy but still love all of the kisses he's giving you.

Answer 5

I think it is strange for a parent to not want their child to show them how much they are loved, but don't worry, in a few years he will "hate" you like most teens "hate" their parents. He will grow out of it.

Answer 6

awwww... that's too cute

there's nothing wrong, he just loves his mom

he'll grow outta it and then be a smart aleck and you'll wonder what the heck happened... lol

Answer 7

you should be glad.. Parents usually the party that asks for kissing.. Ur son loves U.. and don't give a d**n about Freud's sick ideas.

He needs Ur passion, love, and care  which 'd be expressed normally in hugging and kissing. If U were busy, leave every thing and give him the moment, don't deprive him from Ur passion for any thing, make him Ur priority at least in this age.I hope U won't miss his kisses some day.

Answer 8

Trust me, you'll miss it when it stops! Make the most of your little boy still wanting his mummy. Maybe set aside a cuddling time, he may be all over you if he feels it's the only way to get your attention if you're busy. And enjoy it!

Answer 9

Great - enjoy it - in a couple of years time he propably wont want you near him.

and please , time spent sharing love with your children must NEVER be "annoying"

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Answer 10

He needs your love and reassurance for goodness sake, the might is only seven years old, I won't finish what I would like to say.

Answer 11

be happy, & enjoy it while you can.

you're gonna miss it one day

Answer 12

if this is something that he has just started to do then you should maybe ask him why he is kissing you so much tell him you like all the kisses and you want to know why so many all of a sudden

it may be because he saw two people kissing or he heard that if you really love someone you kiss them lots you dont know what he might be thinking its better to sit and have a chat about it

Answer 13

he is just trying to be sweet

Answer 14

Awh he loves his Mummy, my little boys nearly 7 he's always been very tactile and affectionate. I have special cuddle times like when watching TV i'll ask him for cuddles and a kiss, then he's learnt I'm always here for him although sometimes theres other things to do (like make his tea)

I'm sure he's fine, but ask him outright anyway - tell him you love him very much and to tell you if he's upset or worried about anything. Enjoy him - he wont be wanting kisses in a few years I'm sure - lol

Sarah x

Answer 15

maybe youre really hottt!!!!!!!!

j/k  its normal

Answer 16

Enjoy it while it lasts. :) And, nothing is wrong. He just loves you!

Answer 17

sounds like separation anxiety - they go through it at different ages.  you could ask him questions to make sure noone has hurt him recently, though.  I'm not a psychologist, but kids do react differently if something has happened - not to worry you though.  good luck.

Answer 18

He showing you that he loves you, give it a few years and he wont want anything to do with you, then youll be asking us why he doesnt bother anymore.

Answer 19

Why complain! I wish my 7 year old son would give me kisses all the time. Go with it, I say. You are lucky to have a loving, affectionate son. Enjoy it while it lasts!

Answer 20

He's looking for your attention. He needs that. Some of our youth don't get that, and have issues when they grow older and do not know how to show affection. Give him the hugs and kisses that he need. This is a teaching time. Teach him. Nothing at this stage is more important than that.

Answer 21

Treasure it!

Answer 22

Enjoy it, because when he's "too cool" to kiss mommy it'll break your heart.

Answer 23

No, he's affirming his love for you and that's GREAT!

Answer 24

Nothing is wrong he is only looking for affection nothing wrong with it whatsoever.

Answer 25

This is the sweetest thing I have heard in a long time, cherish it.  He loves you very much.  Just let him know that he can't climb on you every two seconds, especially if you are in the middle of doing something.  However, you love his kisses and love him very much.

Answer 26

This is normal and it will pass,you are his first encounter with a female as well as being his mother give him plenty of cuddles and tell him that you like him to show he loves you. My son used to do the same to me as well as my daughter,when she continued to do it and tell me she wanted to marry me when she was older;I explained that she couldn't!I t did make me laugh though! They are grown now.

Answer 27

It can be a bit annoying..............how awful and insensitive

He obviously wants to kiss you and show you some affection its just a pity of the poor thing that his kisses aren't wanted

Shameful

Answer 28

:D he luvs u. you'll think back on this when he's a teenager.

Answer 29

He is looking for attention. If it is getting excessive just teach him that kisses are okay and actually good sometimes and other times kisses are to be saved for later. If you are reacting in a way that is giving him a lot of attention, negative or positive you are encouraging the behavior. This is a phase he will get over.

Answer 30

I know it's probably annoying, but he loves you, and I think it's really sweet:)  He's probably very attached to you and a bit of a mommy's boy.  It's pretty normal and the habit will wear off eventually.  He's still only little!