My son keep getting in trouble at school?

Question

but he tell me the other student keep picking at him, i go to the school an they keep telling me its my son. i know thats not the case who could i talk to

Answer 1

If you don't believe what's being told to you , go to school and not let your son know you're coming .

Answer 2

Your son needs to be honest.

Answer 3

At this point you need to do more than find people to talk with.  You need to spend several days quietly observing your son's classroom.  After a few days your presence will fade into the background and you will get a clear picture of what is actually happening.

Answer 4

your son may not be being entirelly truthful with you. Is it possible they are at him and he retaliates and he gets caught? Teach him to walk away and to find a teacher  if this is the case. Get together with the teachers and your son and talk this through

Answer 5

I agree with spy operation. Although my daughter was the one beig pick on. The school never said it was her. they always said she never caused problems. I started to volunteer at the school for flouride treatments on Wednesday. I would deliver them to all the classrooms. I would help with picture day, eye screening and dental. I would do anything that got me in the school during the day. This is how I dound out.

Are school has an open door policy. I would sign in before lunch and go sit on the hill and watch my child play. Sometimes when discovered I would play with the kids too. That is all you can do. Deep down you know what your child will and won't do. Also watch him outside when he plays with other kids. Pretend to read a magazine.. There are many ways. Then you will know what to do.

Answer 6

well you should try and maybe do like a little spy operation thing ask the teachers if you can attend the classes with your son but dont let him see you so you can see if its the other kids or your son

Answer 7

you need to watch your son a little closer.. and find out if the other kid is a teacher' s kid at the schools  because if so . good luck getting anyone at that school to help you.

Answer 8

Sorry to tell you this, but he is lying to you.

Im 16 and i remember how all of this works.

you sit him down and tell him the truth, and if he doesnt, then he does not go anywhere for a month.

if he tells you that he lied, have certain restrictions for about a week, and this will help him realize, even though he will say it doesnt help.

However, if he gives you the same story, tell him that he has one more chance incase hes lying, otherwise the stakes are doubled.

my parents did this and im actually embarassed to say it made the difference. I know tons of kids at my school that just lie like theres no tomorrow, and im sure their honesty habits as children were not so keen.

I hope this helps.

Good Luck!

Answer 9

Does your son get punished at school.

Your son may be a showoff for attention.

I am in the 11th grade getting in trouble at school is just being a kid its kind of fun alot of kids try to be showoffs.

If i were you I would not go to school than all the other kids will make fun of him his mother is coming.

You may want to also punish your son also - He may like that also. - Your son only wants attention.