My sons aunt excluded him from his cousin's birthday party. Should I be angry?

Question

My husband and I are separated and get along, but not perfectly. His brother's son apparently was having his birthday party today. I am very close to his family still and I never heard about the party. My husband told me that he was going to the party because he lives @ his moms, 6 doors down from his brother's. Our 15 month old was not even invited, and I could understand them not wanting drama between my husband and I, but excluding my son on purpose takes the cake! How should I approach/deal with this? I left the aunt (his brother's stuck up wife) a voicemail and told her that if she wants to play dirty, then don't expect to be invited to anymore of her nephew's parties.

Answer 1

Let It Go...

Answer 2

move on what can you do but make things worse?

Answer 3

I would not let it bother me.  Your son is just 15 months old and to your to enjoy a party.

My granddaughter is 5 and she did not want to invite her cousin who is the same age as she is to her birthday party.  She had two parties one on her birthday with was a princes  tea party.  The she had one that week end.  For the first party she could only invite 3 friends.  Her mother suggested her cousin but her daughter said she didn't want her to come.  So she invited 3 other friends.  He cousin was invited to her big party.

Just because they are related does not mean they will automatically be invited to a party.  I would not say anything to them about it.  I don't know how old their child is but if he is older, he probably didn't want a baby at his party.    

Answer 4

I would just forget it. Life's to short to waste on to much drama.

Answer 5

Walk away from it and give your son parties and you decide who to invite and who not to.