My spouse is cheating on me?

Question

what should i do!

Answer 1

If you are 100% certain of this, then you know exactly what you need to do. No matter how much you love him, he'll never give you the love or respect you deserve. You'll end up living a miserable life, much like you are now. Leave him and be happy, it adds years to your life. Goodluck.

Answer 2

What should you do? Well if you are a strong woman, and if you have the self respect and the self esteem along with the ability to be alone with yourself until you get someone else i suggest you leave. Once someone cheats they will always cheat. It is in their blood. They cant help them self. They are basically very insecure and need attention. It's not you it's them.

Italianman

Answer 3

what you should do is task one of your friends to spy on him to see if it is true! If it is true confront him and ask him say i know you are with so and so and you need to decide me or her! that's what i would! Good luck!!

Answer 4

confront him

if you can prove he is cheating with hard facts get seperated and i would file for divorce

do what you think is right for yourself not what other people think...hope everything works out for you!

Answer 5

confrontation time!!! good luck

Answer 6

That's grounds for divorce to me.

Answer 7

Confront him, then get a good lawyer and divorce him.

If they do it once, they will do it again

I am sorry you are going through this. Find someone you can talk with to help you through this.  

Answer 8

If you have evidence, file for divorce.

Answer 9

Well DAH---unless you like sharing,have a open relationship,or just have no self-respect.Then Honey get all dolled up.Get yourself some cash and a couple of real good girl friends.Call a lawyer,Then Celebrate.THINK ALIMONY!

Answer 10

nothing...nothing at all.  Right now you are WAY TOO EMOTIONAL.  Take some time for you to gather your thoughts and emotions.  Then.....sit down and have a long heart to heart.  He needs to come clean on EVERY LEVEL.  He then needs to become an open book.  It's hurts like H*LL...I have been where you are with my husband.  Once a cheat, always a cheater, I don't believe.  But staying with a cheater, is hard work b/c you will constantly quesiton his honesty.

Answer 11

I would tell you what I would do if my spouse cheated on me, I would leave him!  I don't want no STD's (telling you from experience), or worse HIV, once he does it and I forgive him is like I'm forgiving him the next one and the next one

Answer 12

get a divorce if you have sufficient evidence

Answer 13

i would def call him on it and then leave him he doesnt deserve you.

Answer 14

i been cheated on may times leave him their is no reason for anyone to cheat they all said iam sorry i dont know why i did it i love you i made a mistake it wont happen again iam sorry to say i took them back into my life and it happend over and over again now iam scared for life i have a new man that is so good to me and i know hw wont cheat on me but i think of it everyday kuz its happend to me many of times best thing to go is to leave him kuz if you go threw it over and over it will hurt so bad when you do finaly leave him kuz your trust for any man wont be tha same

Answer 15

if you have proof. change the locks and leave his stuff out the front with a note pinned on it saying "go to h**l you cheating b*stard", if he causes any trouble, ring the police. Also file for divorce.

if you dont have proof, confront him with what you do know, and you 2 need to talk...one of them long and serious kind

but remember, as a rule, if he IS a cheater, then once a cheater..always a cheater, stay with him, he will cheat on you again