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My stepdad calls me lazy and im sick of it help please.?

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My stepdad is constantly calling me lazy. He says I'm lazy because i grumble bc I don't want to do house work all the time(mainly bc I'm usually cleaning up messes HE makes). I do it anyways to help my mother out while i live at home with her and him while i find a job. What makes me so angry about the housework the most is I will clean the kitchen and 10 mins later HE has tracked mud on the floor or left dirty dishes in the sink. The other thing that upsets me about this is he calls me lazy BUT hes the one who has not had a job since april of this year,has yet to look for a job,AND hes lying to the unemployment office about looking for a job. All he does is lay around the house watching h**l date and tyra banks. I on the other hand am taking two online courses,I have no car of my own but still manages to look for a job (the economy suxs ) so i can save up buy a car and move. Along with that while I'm looking for a real job i plan on trying to sell avon cosmetics in the mean time but I'm the lazy one because i don't want to constantly mop up the mud HE tracks into the house. What do i say to my stepfather the next time he says or even hints that i am lazy?

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  1. Your stepfather is trying to bring you down to his level. Don't do it. You know who you are. You are trying to better your position. He resents this because you are showing him up. At this time do not say anything or react in any way that will make him more angry. When you have your job, your car, and a place lined up to move to, then tell him if he doesn't like it to do it himself. But be prepared to duck as you run out the door.


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  3. Tell him that you don't have a problem cleaning & doing your fair share.And it is only fair while your mum out working & supporting his lazy mind & body that he should do his share & help around the house too.

  4. The next time your stepdad says or hits that you are lazy, tell him, it takes one to know one

  5. Well, it seems to me that you are a very self-less person. Just find some point of comfort, some kind of stress-reliever. I'm not saying you should smoke, but I am saying find something that you can turn to when he is being an a*****e to you. Those little squeeze-me stress toys, really do help to some people, but you can find ANYTHING to help you.

    The next him does that, ask him calmly, what he wants you to do to better yourself for him. If he truly is an a*****e, then he will give you a comment which you are not going to like to hear. Don't be discouraged. If he is just mistaken, he will tell you what he expects from you, that is reasonable.

    Good luck!

  6. Tell him he is your role model and you are trying to be like him.

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