My stepgrandpa cheated on my grandma. I feel disgusted & confused, please help:/?

Question

They have been together for 22 years, so before I was born cause Im 15. They always had fun together and I just found out today that they are going to get divorced because my stepgrandpa was getting naked pictures from a lady at his work. I feel absolutely disgusted and creeped out and my parents want me to cut him out of my life. Idk if I want to or not just because he's always been like a real grandpa to me. But it makes me so angry that he would do that to my grandma. I have no idea what to do, can anybody please offer me some advice? Anything is appreciated, thank you so much.

Answer 1

omg that is discusting, your grandpa sounds like a playboy...i feel that you shold not be too close to him. Your parents are right. Try to stay away from him

Answer 2

Now im gonna give it to you str8t because your 15 and I think you can handle it.

Cut him out of your life along with your parents. Because he was only your Stepgrandpa, he doesn't really think of you as his grand daughter. In a few years you will understand, he will not call you on your birthdays, send you gifts on Christmas etc. Because he was your grandmothers husband and not your grandfather.

It will be difficult to understand. If they get divorced just don't expect much from him afterwards, and spend more time with your grandmother she is hurting right now.

Answer 3

I am so sorry for this tragic event in your life. Finding out a person you loved that much has done something so bad is devastating. I think you should talk with your grandma. Tell her how you feel about your step grandpa. She may have already made her decision, but you can still tell her how you feel about him and maybe she will change her mind. He has been with you your whole life, I am sure he feels horrible and embarrassed. Talk to your parents also, it sounds like they want nothing to do with him. He may not be your step grandpa anymore, but maybe if you can sort this out he could end up at least being your friend. Sleep on this, and make sure you talk to your family and express your feelings about him. Good luck, you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.  :)