My student confided in me that an older girl showed him her b*****s, etc. Should I tell his parents?

Question

I don't want to lose the kid's trust in me, but he's only a freshman, and the S****y girl is a senior. I'd prefer she not "experience" the young man and s***w up his life, but I'm concerned that if I narc him out, he might rebel and go through with more "visits" and get himself into serious trouble.

What are the pros and cons I am missing?

THANKS FOR YOUR SPEEDY REPLY!

Answer 1

Personally, I don't think it's that unusual. In high school it's not uncommon for all the grades to mingle and whatnot and s*x is on everyones mind. It's also not uncommon for senior boys to have freshman girlfriends...for various reasons. If I were you, I wouldn't get his parents involved, but I would just talk to him man-to-man about the situation. For him, that was probably the best thing in the world, and like I said, I really don't think it's a big deal, but if you feel that you need to say something to him about the girl and her reputation, go for it.

Answer 2

Um... hi I think you should leave it alone because it's high school and well... stuff happens but it's up to the boy for real just ask him

Answer 3

forget about it im sure he have seen breast before

Answer 4

You not need to call him out! Why him? The girl needs to be called out for her behavier. But it could rebound on you for confronting her for what she is doing. You need a conference with the girl and a councelor about her behavier. You not need to lead him in the conversation at all but was advised from teachers what was happening. She needs to realize what she is doing is wrong and embarasing to her. And if it happens again that parent conference will come to action. Hope that helps, Good Luck!

Answer 5

calm down it isnt that big

of  a deal..its his life dont u forget..

he trusted you with this..dont lose his trust..

he could get in serious trouble one day and wont go to you

for help if u lose his trust

Answer 6

why did he tell you ? thats weird ....

so he got to see some b***s im sure he will live to want to see some more lol

Answer 7

if he is a good kid then he will just take a mental picture and be done with it.  

you may talk to her but then she might take it out on him.

very tough situation.  good luck.

Answer 8

I would just let it go and not tell his parents.  Kids do this all the time and they could do so much worse.  Thank you and good day.

Answer 9

Why would a student tell you that?  Weird.  If it happened at school you need to report it.  If it happened outside of school then butt out.  That girl is twisted.

Answer 10

LOL thats a good one.

Answer 11

pros...

he wont s***w up his life

h**l stop seeing her

cons...

u'll lose his trust

he'll never see girls in the same way

***its up to you

Answer 12

I think you should talk to the boy, and ask him if he is seriously upset about this and what action he wants you to take. If he wants you to talk to her, then you should x

Answer 13

If you talked to anybody it would be the GIRLS parents and the principal.  All the boy did is look at some b***s, that were presented to him.  The girl is the one on the road to trouble if she doesn't stop acting like a truckstop pass around girl.

Answer 14

Why call the boys parents? He didn't do anything. You should call the girls parents.

Answer 15

don't talk to his parents about it! talk to HIM about it. he obviously trusts you and looks up to you for support, right? so give him good advice and be like his older brother :) you can probably have a lot more good effect than his parents. if his parents talk to him about it, they might be mad and mean about it, and it could be very embarrasing for him. i bet talking with you would be much more comfy. :)

Answer 16

Oh dear we must alert the church elders of this sinfull devil child.

CALM DOWN! A lot of worse things could have happened!

Answer 17

Don't tell them. He trusted you not to tell anyone.