My stupid co-worker is so funny?

Question

and charming, and polite, its starting to grow on me.. Have you ever tried not to like someone??

We are both in relationships, but he never talks about his gf and is always asking me questions about my bf. I see him at the end of the day when we have to sit and wait for 2 hours,so we just end up talking about random stuff and things that happen in our daily lives. We are from different backgrounds, but we like the same things, like what guy do you know likes "Dead poets society"?? that movie is so awesome, lol. My bf has never even heard of it.. but i still dont want to like my co-worker,

How do I avoid thinking about him, ive tried going on more dates with my bf, but it just doesn't work. I see my co-worker everyday but friday, and even then i feel like seeing him. I dont want to end my relationship of 3 years with my bf, but i cant stop freaking thinking about my co-worker, its so hard not to like his personality and the smart things he says.

My bf is funny at times, but i find myself talking the most and trying the most. My bf is a stupid mommas boy who does EVERYTHING for his mother, i bought him an Air conditioner for his room because it was really hot, I went to his house to install it and he didn't let me do it because his mom would get mad he didnt share it with her. Or I want to go out during the day to swim, to the gym, do little things with him and he never wants to because his mother wants him to do something else. My bf doesnt even go to school or have a stable job, i always encourage him but I dont know what to do, i know this is a stupid question, i just need some advice. Have any of you been in this similar situation?

Answer 1

It sounds to me like you are wanting a new bf. Even if it isn't your co-worker. I think you liek your bf but not in a couple way.

Answer 2

You need to dump your boyfriend. He sounds like a looser who will never EVER pick you over his mommy. She probably doesnt even like you.

Anyway. After that mess is over. Just be friends with co-worker. Have your secret crush. But you need to let him leave his woman for you only if he wants to. What if he loves her. What if shes a mean b*tch. Who knows.

But first things first. Get rid of mommas boy. You dont keep old food in the fridge just because it was once tasty.

Its just old and no good. Get rid of it.

Answer 3

you can't win with a momma's boy, you will always come in second.

it's time for another boyfriend. one who will put you first where you belong.

don't move in on your co-worker.  it's not fair to him or his girlfriend.  there is someone out there for you.

good luck!

Answer 4

Be careful ...... your coworker could be only making an attempt to see if he can win you over your boyfriend... You have to really know what your co-worker is really on about with you... He could be misleading you into believing he wants an intimate relationship and then turn around and pull a cold move leaving you totally abandoned and feeling stupid without a boyfriend at all .. The bottom line is , the only thing about your co-worker that you know now is what you see of him at work and you know a whole lot more about your current boyfriend as oppose to your co-worker.  You could end up in an intimate relationship with him and find out some things that you never knew and might not approve of....... I'm not saying you shouldn't give him a chance , but just be careful and know exactly who you become involved with ....

Answer 5

were you questioning your relationship with your bf before your crush on your co-worker? You can control this situation if you are committed to your bf. If there are issues you are not addressing with your bf, this situation could be a problem. It's great that you get along with your co-worker, don't let it become more than a friendship if you want it to work with your bf. I have guy friends and a bf that I love more than anything. I am totally committed and everyone knows it. What about you? Be careful. If you are complaining about your bf to this person, he may jump on the opportunity, gf or not. The grass isn't always greener on the other side, to quote an old cliche.