My twin sister hates me?

Question

we used to be so close we were best friends now she hangs out with a girl who is doing bad things and dragging my sister along with her...my sister steals and does drugs...not to long i was with a group of friends hanging out and celebrating my appectance to college they threw me a surprise party and my sister didnt want to go she was with her new bf jess and they were at a party my sister got alcholic posioning was called by some guy who said that they dropped her off inside a parking lot and when i got there she was not responding so i drove her to the ER were they had to pump her stomach...i called my mom b cuz there was all sorts of paperwork to fill out i didnt know what to do....its been over several months and things arent the same we barely talk...were two stangers sharing a room...the thing is she still hangs out w that grl and the group of people that go along w that..idk how can i fix our friendship i miss my best friend ya know she the other half of me..i want my sis back

Answer 1

It's not you. It is her, into the drugs and low life friends. People change drastically, when they are on drugs and alcohol.~believe me, I lost my exfiance and best friend to meth addiction. Talk to her and tell her how you feel or write her a letter, if you two are not getting along. She is gonna have to hit rock bottom, which is an ugly place to be.

Answer 2

You can't fix it. It's up to her to grow up and realize that the people she calls friends don't care about her as much as you do. All I can say is give her time and be there for her within reason. Don't revolve your life around her. Even if you are twins, you are not the same person and have different lives and choices that you each make. She made hers and she might change but it might be too late. I'm not sure if it would even be a good idea to ask your parents to help out and have a little more control over who she hangs out with. It depends on your age and how well along you girls get with them.

Congrats for getting admited to college! Keep up the good work.

Answer 3

I know that everytime you see a question like this the answer always is: "just tell her how you feel" amd so on. Well as much as you may or may not want it to be true that is a big part of the answer. You should be abble to talk to her with ease. She is not only your friend but your sister. She should always be able to help you with your problems and  you should be able to do the same with her. Even if she is a part of the problem: she will understand were you are coming from. I realoze that your realationship has declined but its never to late to go and stop it from falling any further. It may be easier if you find a friend of yours and your sister's who feels the same way you do. That way you both could go to your sister to tell her how yout two feel. Even if she doesn't listen it will still be better knowing that she realizes how you feel. No matter what happens you always have to tell yourself that really she loves you still no matter what. Your sisters even twins for that matter, and through thick and thin you should both be there for eachother. I wish you and your sister the best of luck.