My uncle died wen i was only 7 years old jst yesterday i had a dream about him.......?

Question

before i fell asleep i was writing a poem to my uncle who died while i was writing dis poem i bagan to cry nd cry....i fell asleep nd i had a dream bout him....he was sitting on a chair i was right next to him i dnt member seeing his face but in other words i grabbed his hand nd jst started to cry...next thing i remember hes gone out of nowere and in my dream and yell UNCLE!!! i wake up slightly but it still feels like im dreaming finally i get up and im covered in tears and sweet......i jst want to knw wat dis dream means and also my whole family and grandmothe(mother of my uncle) alwayz cries because she says i look and speak exactly like him......

Answer 1

you're just really missing him.

Answer 2

Ur uncle came to ur dream becouse u send ur kindness feeling to him.

Answer 3

I think it bothers you to hear your family say you look just like your uncle.  Then, you see them get all sad, and it maybe makes you feel like you are his "clone" or substitute.  Also, they're sadness makes you sad, too.  It makes you FEEL as if you are causing their sadness.  

It upsets you.  I think this is why you had this sad and scary dream.  Share this with your Mom and Grandmother.  Tell them you love and miss him too, but you are YOU and you want them to be glad to have you!  (I know they are glad, but they don't know how sad they are making you.)

I pray your family can move past this grief and into happy memories of your uncle!

God bless you and your family.

Fairelight

Answer 4

We usually dream about things that are important to us and//or ae currently in our lives.  Sorry you had the nightmare, and your grandmother probably should be being treated for depression.  It's a common side effect of losing a loved one.