My volleyball team hates me. read?

Question

i can't play, end of story.

i don't get why everyone has to be so crazy about winning.

they yell at me and talk about me behind my back,

one of my team mates ever told me they hate me.

i really don't think this is how a team treats their team mates.

help me please?

Answer 1

it's just gym volleyball. i can understand your point of view, since it's only gym and not official games. i think the best thing to do is to talk to your teacher. your "team mates" should understand that everyone is good at different things and just because you cannot play does not give them a right to yell at you, talk behind your back or even say "i hate you".

Answer 2

I'm not sure how old you are, but "hate" is an awefully strong word.  Not everyone is great at every sport.  So you aren't the best in Volleyball, oh well, neither am I.  Let them talk behind your back, they are only words.  You are right that teammates should not treat their members that way, but you know, girls are girls.  Here's my advice:  Tomorrow when you have to play again, before you even start playing, say, "Okay everyone, just so you all know....I realize that I am not very good at this game, but hey, I'll give it my best shot."  Then smile and do your best.  That will catch everyone off guard.  That way, there won't be anything anyone can say about you that you haven't already said about yourself in front of all of them.  

You see, most of the reasons of why people talk about other people is to get reactions and to feel important.  By you saying something first, you will take that power away from them.  Trust me.  You will be just fine.  You will find something that you are really good at one day, and then you will see that someone else isn't good at it.  Just remember that the time will come when you don't want to make fun of someone then, that isn't good at what you are good at!  Good luck, and keep your head up!

Answer 3

they hate you cause you are no good?

next time they get to you, tell them this.

"I attended this class to learn and not to earn your respect."

after all, its a class right?

god forbid, they're not going far than you will be.

heads up young fella..!

Answer 4

i was bad at first an then someone special told me just practice and have fun while doing it an ignore everyone else they're just jealous cause they no one day u will be better than them an wen that day comes you'll hopefully be the better person an tell them the same thing they should have told you try hard an have fun winning is not all that matters

Answer 5

Talk to your teacher.

Answer 6

Oh My Gosh.

It's A Team.

My Volleyball Team Supports Eachother.

s***w Them, Just Call The Ball And HAVE A POSITIVE ATTITUDE.

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OKAY?

HAVE FUN!

Answer 7

Make friends with your haters.

Answer 8

they need to get over it. just keep practicin. tell them winning isnt evrythin. just try to b friendly to them. also, u can tell the coach if u think it gets bad enough. (but i warn u, telling the coach mite result in a team punishment, or the team dissliking u evn more) (but hey! its a suggestion

Answer 9

Hey, there is this girl on my team who was the same way. i wasn't the best player on the team, but hey I tried. She would talk about me behind my back and i got absolutely sick of it.

One time i was soo pissed, i asked the coach to pull me out of the game. She was telling me to concentrate and not mess up the serves. Then the next day at practice when he asked me why i did, the girl had the nerve to act like she was drinking water and stand behind the coach to listen to what i said. I got frightened and said, I didn't want to be responsible for the team's losing.

I decided that she should just bug off, and ignored her. Now she can no longer play in our league because she's too old, and I DON'T HAVE TO DEAL WITH HER! YAY YAY YAY!

You just make sure that no one gets to you. I didn't let her bug me all the time. I would n't let her get me down! Just keep a good head, and say..."So what! I'm not the best, but you ain't so hot either!" or "God forbid i am not good at sports!" or "Shut up!" usually just play it off as a joke...

Answer 10

OK. They're obviously not good teammates, so it's up to you to be the good teammate. Be the better person and congratulate them when they make good plays and encourage them when they make bad ones. If they still continue to say bad things, forget them.

Hope this helped.

Answer 11

talk to your teacher, stand up for yourself, or keep on practicing to get better.