My wedding is comming and i want to die?

Question

is this normal?

i m so afraid and i really think about death to skip away everything comming

Answer 1

You might just have cold feet.

But if you think that the wedding is troubling you so much, talk to your fiance/partner or other family and friends.

It's good to establish some social support.

And if it gets really bad, and there are signs of any deviant or maladaptive behavior that may cause you any personal distress then I suggest you see your doctor.

Answer 2

Then  you don't want to get married. Tell him or her.

Answer 3

You need to talk to someone fast! This should be the happiest time of your life, you need to get to the root of the problem as to why ur feeling like this. Maybe you're unsure whether this is the right thing for you or not. Everyone gets cold feet before their wedding day, but not to the point where they'd rather die than go through with it. Seriously, go and talk to someone, they'll help you deal with whatever issues you seem to be facing.

Answer 4

ask youself this..

why do you feel like this?

do you really want to marry him

theres nothing stopping you calling it off if you feel so bad about it, you should be excited - the happiest day of your life - its not right you feel like that

Answer 5

It is a lot of pressure to get married.  Everyone is bugging you and telling you what to do- but always reminding you that it is "YOUR DAY!"

See if you and a few girlfriends can run away for a weekend to destress and talk.  Try getting to the root of the problem.  Get a good girlfriend who doesn't care about pissing people off - to start telling people to BACK OFF.

You have to think- what is stressing you?  The wedding or the marriage...if it is the wedding- do as I said above or cancel the wedding and have you and future hubby run off and elope.

If it is the marriage you are dreading- then you need to postpone or cancel the nuptials.

Either way- you are feeling normal.  But this isn't worth dying over.  Maybe running away for a few days- but that is about it.  

Answer 6

Its Your Big Day, Dont let depression get in the way! x

Answer 7

Wow, sounds like you don't need to be getting married!

Answer 8

no, my dear... you must live without his remember

Answer 9

If you dont want to get married, then the simple answer would be DON'T DO IT.  If you are feeling suicidal then for God's sake end the relationship now.

Answer 10

That's pretty sad. Do yourself and the poor guy who is marrying you a favor and call off your wedding if you would rather be dead then deal with what is supposed to be the happiest day of your life. You sound a little touched in the head, I would get that fixed before you even consider getting married. Clearly you are not mature or together enough to handle it.

Answer 11

You are depressed. Do not get married until you are better. See a Dr. immediately.  

Answer 12

dont get married until this depression is over. please. you'll have even more depression later.you dont want that.

Answer 13

It is absolutely normal.    Your husband to be might be feeling exactly the same.

There is so much pressure on the bride and just think, it's a lot of fuss for such a short time - from waking up on your Wedding Day to going to bed, 18 hours at the most!

Evey bride wants the weather, guests, family, dress etc to be perfect - you have to be aware that a lot of this is out of your control and that's what gets to brides to be the most.

This is why when I got married, no-one knew and only witnesses were there.  The whole day is about two people who want to be together.  There's no need for all this stress.

Good luck hun :)

Answer 14

DON"T EVEN THINK OF SUICIDE,, MARRIAGE IS BAD ENOUGH after 35 years , however i have 6 kids and 16 g/children, and the thought of losing them ,through suicide is not worth it ,,, GET MARRIED

AND THINK ABOUT THE FUTURE,, BEST REGARDS ianthewelder,,good luck,,

Answer 15

its normal, everybody whos gotten married that I know of have had the pre wedding jitters... although not as much as yours. Have you told your fiance?

Answer 16

If it's that bad, don't get married.  Fairly simple solution.

Of course, I'm assuming here that not being married is better than not being alive.

Answer 17

be relaxed!don't take any step in hurry.call him talk to him.If U don't like him or if U find some fault in him refuse to marry him.

                                But why are U thinking to die for him?

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Answer 18

What the heck ? Go and see your general Practioner now.

This is mean to be the happiest time of your life?

If its that bad then atleast talk to your fiance, as opposed to asking random people on yahoo answers.

Answer 19

you mean cuz your nervous about the day or you dont want to get hitched?  

Answer 20

you should really talk to someone close to you. this sounds like more the "pre wedding jitters".  maybe your honestly not ready, or your guardian angel is trying to warn you of the doom ahead if you get married to this guy

Answer 21

Can you imagine the shock and sadness that all who love you would feel if something like that did happen?

You wouldn't be the first bride to be who has felt totally overwhelmed by the grand plans of a wedding. It sounds as if you are totally overwhelmed, perhaps depressed or maybe even just not ready for marriage. Please talk firstly to someone you trust and know well, then if you still feel the same way, talk to your fiance about at least postponing the wedding. Seeing a Dr would also help, but I feel that you really need the comfort of a close family member or friend as well. Don't go through with the wedding just to please others... you have every right to pull out either temporarily or for good.

Please seek help. I hope you can find the answer you need.

Answer 22

To allay your fears you need to take a moment out to ask yourself why am i afraid? is it the organisation or something more like not wanting to get married? Its normal to have fears at this time, a lot of people ask themselves do i really want to do this.? you should  for both of your sakes as its better to stop now than to sort the mess out later.

Good luck and i hope it works out for you.

Answer 23

Is it that you're afraid of marriage, or just afraid of the pressures of the big day? You have to speak with your partner.  

Answer 24

You may want to die but don't commit suicide. Suicide is one BIG mistake you can't undo.

The weeks leading up to  your own wedding are some of the most stressful and awful of your life, but once it all comes together and turns out fine, they will be worth it.

My mum was 7.5 stone by the time she was getting married, because of all the stress.

If you really want to cancel the wedding, explain to your fiance how you feel. They love you and will understand.

Good Luck. Smile be Happy =)