My wedding is in 14 days and I am not excited, is that normal? ?

Question

My wedding is Sunday August 31st and I am not excited or nervous yet.

With all the stress going on I am not excited. How long did it take you excited or nervous about the wedding.

Answer 1

I was very excited at the beginning of the planning, then I just became stressed out and not excited at all towards the end, but once everything was paid off and the hall was decorated the night before, I was excited again.  It is just the stress getting to you.  Maybe take a day off from wedding stuff and just hang out with your man and focus on each other and hopefully when you have to face planning again, you will be excited again.  Have a great wedding!

Answer 2

Yes it is normal - but what is important is that on the day you relax and enjoy yourself, afterall this is the biggest day of your life!

Answer 3

its all because of your stress!

you need to take a few days to yourself, get pampered at the spa and think about how amazing your life is going to be...maybe imagine how great your honeymoon will be!

Answer 4

Take a deep breath and relax, your wedding day only comes once, so please try to enjoy yourself and later on the memories of your blessed event.  Best of luck to the both of you.

Answer 5

2 days before the wedding

Answer 6

sweetie,

It will be hitting you soon. I am getting married on the 23rd of august and I wasn't all that excited either until I had my bridal shower and the beginning of this past week. I am so excited and nervous and happy. I am also ready to get it over with so i can say that I am married and have the greatest husband ever. I too, am marrying my best friend. Congrats and best of luck to the both of you.

Answer 7

I'm getting married September 6 and honestly I'm not that excited either. I mean, I am SUPER excited to be married, but the ceremony kinda freaks me out (so I guess I'm nervous).

I bet you will start feeling it when you walk down the aisle and everyone is watching you (eeps). But if you don't get scared then consider yourself lucky that you didn't have a near panic attack.

Once all the stress dies down and you can finally relax and know that everything is taken care of (even if you don't reach that until seconds before you are at the altar) you will be excited.  

Answer 8

I'm not married, but I have 2 kids and I know with all the stress toward the end and right when I gave birth I wasn't very excited. I think you will get excited it's just a crazy time in your life. Congrats and Good luck!

Answer 9

You are normal; just because you are not all stressed out doesn't mean  a thing.  You are planning a marriage, not just a wedding!

Relax and enjoy!

Answer 10

I was the same way, all while we were planing it I was not excited, all the way up until I started walking down to meet my husband and than it hit me i was crying and smiling and laughing all at the same time and i try to stop and I could not, I realized it truly was my day and at the end I was overwhelm. So just wait and when that day comes you will be excited.

Answer 11

It is because of the stress.  It probably doesn't seem really to you yet.  It didn't hit me until the day before the wedding and then I was really excited because everything was done that needed to be done.  I wasn't nervous at all because I knew that I would be marrying the most wonderful man.  We are married almost 15 years so I made the right choice.  Congrats.

Answer 12

you WILL be! Probably, you are just looking at the wedding as "just another event" and are not so excited because you've been planning it for a LONG time, so you know what to expect OR because you've been stressed by the wedding plans, you don't feel so excited. But trust me, on the morning of your wedding (or the night before it), you will have this rush of sudden excitement! Enjoy the moment and wish that it will be you first and last, so make the most of it!