My weddings in 5 weeks and I am going CRAZY IN SANE! HELP?

Question

I am soooo stressed out! Advice, What did you do or what are you going to do.

Answer 1

dont worry, stressing is the WORST thing you can possibly do right now. you need to take deep breaths and just think about how happy you are going to be with this person. obviously you love them if your going to marry him. so just calm down. its your wedding and your scared. who hasnt ben there first time? dont even freak if you cry so many people do. its going to be your night. your night a wonderful beautiful night. this person loves you, except it. these next 5 weeks put candels around your bathroom and take a bubble bath just lay back and relax. maybe even go to a salon. get a massage & nails done. go for a 10 minute walk. look & realize this beautiful world out there, because your going to be spending it with someone you love & he loves you back. alot.

Answer 2

maybe you are goign crazy cuz you takeing to much responsibalit take some time for yourself

Answer 3

You need to go somewhere with some girlfriends or your man, turn OFF your cell phone, and make ONE rule, you are not allowed to think or talk about your wedding.

Also, try deep breathing when you get stressed, in through the nose, out through the mouth.

GOOOD LUCK!

Answer 4

Try to relax because if you don't, you will not enjoy the day. The closer it gets the more worried that you will become. You just need to take some time to yourself and BREATHE. If you feel like planning the wedding is too much, ask someone to help. I guarantee they won't turn you down because planning a wedding is extremely stressful. It's not even the major things that concern you. It's the little things that drive you up the wall. For me, I was so worried about my dress being ready in time. I was worried about the flowers because they were not from a local florist. I was worried about everything because I had my faith and hope instilled in a wedding planner a thousand miles away. The closer the wedding got, the more stressed I became. My stress went away when the doors opened, and I saw my fiance standing at the end of the aisle. That's when it all became clear. The rose petals could have been all red, and I don't think I would have cared because as long as I was going to be marrying the love of my life, the little things were totally irrelevant. Just try to stop stressing because with stress comes breakouts, headaches, and restlessness. I'm sure you don't want puffy eyes on your day. Concealer and a veil can only hide so much. It is important to get enough sleep, relax, and let nature take its course. Congratulations on your pending nuptials. I wish you all the best.

Answer 5

If you're stressed out you just need to forget about all the little things you're stressing over. Write a list of things to be done and give it to someone to do for you. If it doesn't all get done. Don't worry. The only important thing, really, is that ya'll are able to get married. I'm getting married in 2 weeks and so far everyone is doing things for me. I'm not stressed yet.

Answer 6

First of all, congratulations!

Next, try going to weddingchannel.com - it may be a little late in the process, but if you create an account (it's free) and enter your wedding date, they have a great checklist.  Check off the items you have done and delete the ones that don't apply to your wedding.  See what you have left.  Now, delegate people in your wedding party, parents, fiance, whoever to help you get the things done that need to be done.  If you know who is doing what and what you have left to do, you'll feel more organized and less stressed.

Also, take a day out for yourself.  Get some pampering.  get your hair done, or go get a massage or something.

Good luck!

Answer 7

im gettin married in six weeks and stress free just chill everything should be fine iv not got my dress bk yet and im not bothered keep ur self buzzy and try not top think about it ity not easy

Answer 8

I felt like that too.  I sat down and made a list of everything that needed to be done.  It made me feel better because it seemed more manageable when it was a specific list as opposed to swimming around in my head.  

Also, delegate, delegate, delegate.  You want to enjoy your day!!  We will celebrate our 5th anniversary this year.  I only vaguely remember the centerpieces and other little details but I vividly remember the vows my sweet husband and I made that day.  That's the important part.  Everything else are just details.

Answer 9

RELAX.  My wife was THE best ever.  There is only ONE thing that has to ahppen in 5 weeks... you say "I do"  he says "I do".... that's it... really.

WHO CARES if crazy aunt Ida passes out... WHO CARES if the white flowers you ordered come in pink?  WHO CARES if the limo is late or the DJ is a no show.

All of these things SUCK and all of these things are unbelievably unimportant compared to the thing that you are there to do!

Good luck and have FUN!

Answer 10

the "wedding" isn't the important part, the marriage is. If the wedding is causing so much stress, your marriage probably won't be easy either. Just enjoy the day and whatever happens, happens.

Answer 11

Set some time for yourself just to relax. I would make a checklist of what needs to be done and set a timeline. That should ease the stress a little bit. Also get help from your friends and family. Good Luck