My wife's Friends are getting on my nerves?

Question

My wife's friends are good people i guess, but for some reason they think that my wife should be in the bars with them every weekend and i am not having it. What should i do???

Answer 1

Tell her your fine with once a month and you take her out the rest that way she get to still have fun but i always say friends are good but it hard to no were the line is and if need be you need to tell them

Answer 2

Def. talk to her about it bar's are not good for any married person to go out with out their partner.Unless it's once and a great while.But I don't blame you I would not settle for that. Good Luck

Answer 3

You had better do something real quick. Mine did the same thing and now she is with them all the time. We got divorced because of it and now she wants to come back to me.

Answer 4

Talk to your wife about it.  Your marriage is in between you and your wife not her and her friends.

Answer 5

You should talk with your wife about how some weekends it's okay to be with the girls but every weekend is not okay. You have a family now with each other, and in my opinion..bars are for people that are LOOKING for a mate.  

Answer 6

What about your wife? How does SHE feel about it? If she wants to go, then you have a problem; if she wants to stay home, then don't stress it.   If she has single friends, it's understandable that they would want her to go out with them every weekend. A lot of times, single people don't "get" that their married friends don't want to go out every weekend.  

Talk to your wife about how you feel about her friends, and the partying. Try not to sound judgmental, though. GL! =)

Answer 7

communication is so important in marriages. You need to talk with her and let her know that you don't like her out every weekend that family needs to come first. Its nice to still go out every now and then when you are married but you should also know when to stay in and just be with your family. Maybe since you haven't said anything to her about it she thinks you don't mind her going out. Just talk to her about it I am sure she will understand.

Answer 8

Encourage your wife to spend time with her friends at appropriate levels. The problem with hanging in bars is 1) the environment can get seedy 2) People's judgment and morals lessen as time goes on.

Bars can be fun, don't get me wrong. But there's a high probability that some indiscretion will occur given enough opportunities.  

Answer 9

This should have been settled before you said "I do." Tell your wife that you expect her to clue her friends in. You have no power with her friends, but she does, and she's not using it. Insist that she start acting married.