My wife's a feminist and I cheated; am I wrong?

Question

Thank you "R Gaspari."

Answer 1

You did the right thing.

Answer 2

you are entitled.

she maybe a feminist and strong at her stand,

but she doesn't know enough how to respect her life partner.

No wonder you cheated, though cheating is a bad thing.

Answer 3

Eleven whole days?  How have you survived?     That still does not give you license to cheat.    Do her a favor leave- she does not warrant a cheating spouse.    

Answer 4

Sounds like you need to end this marriage. You are not happy. What you did isn't right no matter what. The way your wife treats you isn't right but you are the one that stays in the relationship.

Answer 5

If she's abusive, leave.  However, cheating and betraying trust is just proving her right if she doesn't respect men.    

Answer 6

Wow. Would you feel guilty divorcing her then? You hate her so much, get out. You have a choice.

I feel like this is so very troll.

Answer 7

you've already justified your action in your own mind so I doubt you really want opposing opinions, however I think before you get married again, spend more than a minute getting to know your bride-to-be.

Answer 8

Your an STD waiting to happen.

Answer 9

Two wrongs do not make a right.

Otherwise crime would be out of control.

Leave the marriage.

Answer 10

You're wife may call herself a feminist. But she is misusing the ideology like a n**i with a book of Nietzsche. Feminism has never been about being abusive towards men and those who would use it to this end do a disservice to us all.

I don't think you did wrong. I think that a lot of promises made in marriage are broken by abuse of any kind. In fact, I think you should divorce her.

Answer 11

So did you like it?

Well, just don't let her know or you won't get a decent divorce.  

Answer 12

Okay... I find this hard to believe but in any case you would need a divorce.

Answer 13

Seriously, never mention this to her because she will slay you at the divorce trial.  Just quietly file your papers and make her out to be the bad guy.  It's the only way you have a chance of coming out of this happy.