My wife acts like she wants me around, then she acts like she don't, and she's giving me the silent treatment?

Question

a week ago everything was fine between my wife and I. now this week she don't want anything to do with me. It's like she's giving me mixed signals. Like when i'm out side more than 10 minutes, i see her peeking through the blinds to see if i'm coming in. She talks to everyone on the phone all nice, but gives me sarcastic conversations. But she cooks for me and everything, but we sleeps in separate rooms. But then it seems like she does things to get my attention, but i ignore them, like she talks loud on the phone,sometimes she follows me around the house, but then it seems like she don't wanna be bothered. I really want our communication back. what do i do?? the bitterness and sarcasm, and the silent treatment is killing me.HELP!!!

Answer 1

Tell her how you feel and ask her to tell you if she has some sort of problem with you or something else. BUT be prepared - the answer may not be to your liking.

Answer 2

MAN ARE YOU MARRIED TO MY WIFE ???? My wife is 48 going thru perimenopause, irritable, hot flashes, no s*x drive,

*****  I wonder if most women are like this ********

nice to others, sarcastic to husbands,,,, man,,, if we guys were nice to other women & treated wives bad, we would not get any s*x for a month,,,,

so whats up ?????

Answer 3

its like some women are , we love our husbands and do care for them but when it comes to talk after any argument we want them to be first. i think you should get a bouqet to her , try to be romantic with her ,talk to her and then go out for dinner and work things out .

and also don't think talking first is some ego problem, its just the love and attention from husband.

she wants to talk, that's why she is giving all these signals , because she loves you my friend

Answer 4

you guys really need to talk because something is causing her to act this way and it will only get worse if you guys wont talk. You probably did some she didn't like and now shes irritated by it. if you guys wont talk about wat she gets mad about then ur in trouble if you need to go c a conselour