My wife and I are trying to conceive but she has difficulty reaching o****m. Any tips to help?

Question

My wife and I are trying to conceive but she has difficulty reaching o****m. Any tips to help?

Answer 1

Although it would be nice for her,....she does not have to reach an o****m to concieve.

Answer 2

Umm...Find the clitoris?

Don't worry - You can knock her up without her having orgasms.

Answer 3

Hi, as the others say you don't need to o****m to get pregnant.

My wife and I tried for years to get pregnant Dr's, Calenders, the lot, !2 miscarriages over 8 years,I even had my sperm count done, guess what, we were told sorry you know chance of kids, so we let the trying for a baby take a back seat, the stress had taken control.

We got back to enjoying each others company and discovering each others bodies and wants (boy that was fun!!!)

Guess what I am now the proud father of Five, 3 boys, 2 Girls, all by the same mum, all have the same father. ME.

I know it can be hard and i feel sympathy for you.

Forget trying, go discover each other.

Answer 4

actually o****m has nothing to do with conception.

that is just the pleasure aspect..have you not heard of women who are forced to have s*x that actually end up pregnant?

once you have s*x during her ovulation period which is usually about 10 days after the start of her monthly period it should be okay.

having said that i know you will want to have a pleasureable time while you try so it does not become like a bit of a chore having s*x.

help her to relax and a lot of foreplay is appreciated by most women of which men are never very ready to give for very long..a relaxing bath or soak togher may help and you can always ask her what she would like best

most of all you guys need to be less anxious and relaxed and all will be well.

baby dust........and good luck

Answer 5

a woman doesnt need to have an o****m to conceive.  while it is nice...it isnt necessary.  I suggest reading up on trying to conceive.

Answer 6

dont worry one day u will reach it.

Answer 7

she can still get pregnant without having an o****m. she just needs to know the days she is supposed to ovulate. try buying ovulation strips.

Answer 8

I have gone through times with the same difficulty.  It really helps if I am really into the s*x and not just trying to get pregnant!  I have found that watching a romantic chick flick before and then enough foreplay (breast stimulation) really helps!

Good Luck!

Answer 9

Trying to conceive without o****m will not stop your wife from getting pregnant. But if you want her to have it. Try fore play like kissing her all over . You know what I mean. Make sure she gets wet in the v****a area. If she's dry she will have problem getting o****m.

Answer 10

She doesn't need to have an o****m in order to get pregnant. If she doesn't have an o****m during intercourse, you can stimulate her in other ways (manually/orally)  before or after you have intercourse.

If you are saying that the stress of 'trying' and timing s*x is making it hard for her to enjoy herself -- consider taking a break from calendars and OPKs and just having s*x when BOTH of you feel like it.

Answer 11

Orgasms are not necessary to conceive.

Answer 12

In order for your wife to o****m more easily she can practice her Kegel pelvic exercises during the day to strengthen her ability to o****m. This is also helpful to restore her previous condition after childbirth. Using a deep penetration position will also help you to contact the g-spot during intimacy which can also help with o****m.

Your wife does not have to o****m in order to become pregnant, it does increase conception though. Experiment with using your pre-ejaculate during intimacy as this contains the most potent sperm.

More foreplay focused on your partner and less on you at the beginning is always appreciated by a woman. Relax, have fun and play. Best wishes, G

Answer 13

I have three kids.  If o****m was a preclude to getting pregnant, I wouldn't have any kids.