My wife and I are trying to make a baby. Any tips for keeping my libido up?

Question

It's a bit routine. Also any good ideas to get her pregnant? We've been trying a couple years. Should I cut back on masturbating?

Answer 1

UMMM one.. Stop masturbating especially during her "fertile" time About 12 days after the first day of her period and for about 10 days... or until she starts her period again.

Honestly.. They say a fertile man produces about 4 million sperm per ejaculation... at 2 million your considered infertile/low sperm count.

They say your should have intercourse every other day to make sure you have an active healthy supply of sperm for the egg.... Masturbating takes that away and lowers the count of sperm trying to reach the egg.

And two ENJOY s*x. try different positions. incorporate games. food, snacks etc. Anything you both like bring it in.. Imagination is a wonderful thing.

And go see a dr. They can check to make sure her hormones are balanced, that she doesn't have something stopping her from ovulating. And you to make sure your sperm count is up before you m********e. Be prepared for a dry spell they dont like you to have intercourse or ejaculate until after the sperm collection..

And three be patient.. the more stressed you both get. the less likely you are to get pregnant

Good luck and Baby dust

Answer 2

ok bud hands off ... and sleep alot, make sure you have s*x when she is ready and when your ready especialy in the morning ... dont stop pumping untill your done... lay her upside down. Head down *** up..   works every time.  

  

Answer 3

1) If you are masturbating during her fertile time, YES... stop.  Don't cut back, but stop.  It's hands OFF when she's fertile.

2) If you've been trying for 2 years it's time for fertility testing.  There may be a problem that's getting in the way.  You BOTH need to be tested as infertility goes both ways.

Good luck.

Answer 4

Yes cut back. Don't let s*x become a routine. Try new things in bed, positions, toys. Put a pillow under your wife when you come. She should keep her pelvis tilted for at least 10 mins. after you ejaculate in her. The other thing you may want to invest in is Clear Blue Easy Ovulation Kit. Good Luck!!

http://www.drugstore.com/products/prod.a...

Answer 5

it took my husband and i 10 yrs into our marriage but we never got tired first quit "trying" that never works then find things that intrest u in the bedroom role playing ect...the more relaxed the both of you are the better...plus too often can lower the sperm count....my sister always claimed she got pregnant everytime shes been drunk....lol....yes cut back start if u want  but finish with her

Answer 6

If you cut back on masterbating around your wife's fertile time, that would help greatly.  The rest of the month it doesn't matter.  Also, any gravity-defying positions (standing, woman-on-top) is not good for babymaking.  To not have the s*x "routine", when she is fertile do the baby-making positions. But, when she is not fertile (around her period,etc), then have s*x any which way you want... Elevate wife's lower body after s*x too

Good luck to you both.

Answer 7

YEs you should cut back on masturbating. FOr on it takes your body 48 hours to produce mobile sperm after ejaculation. So, therefore the more you c*m the less fertile you are. SO, try having s*x every other day and especially around 7-14 days after the first day of her last period. But if you have been trying that long. You both might want to go talk to a fertility speciallist. They say if you are trying with no luck after a year you should talk to one.  

Answer 8

I would also add by cutting back on the masturbation, you might find the bedroom more sizzling.

Take steps to make it fun.  TTC can really make s*x boring and a dreaded chore rather then an great intimate experience if you let it.  Talk about what you want or need and let her tell you what she wants and needs.