My wife bought me DVD player?

Question

I already have a DVD player and I told her to take it back to Wallmart and get the money back I don't need it. She burst out crying and saying I never appreciate anything she does for me.

I did nothing wrong. She has to understand to stop buying stuff we already have. What is her problem you tell me?

Answer 1

Sounds like she was trying to do something nice for you, and you totally missed the point.. Sounds like it's your problem, not hers.... I know it's hard for guys to be sensitive, but it sounds like she could use a little extra attention and appreciation from you. My husband is the saaaame way.

Answer 2

I am sorry to hear you are having martial problems. Maybe if you sit her down and explain to her what you mean by her not spending money on things you don't need, maybe she will understand better. Good luck to ya, maye you can reach her because it doesn't make any sense to buy things you already have.

Answer 3

u are not showing enaf love 2 her

do this

guy her somthing she will realy lik

do somthing wiad

Answer 4

Women are complicated creatures my dear, you have to understand that she felt that she need to treat you the best way to get round this it communication tell her that you dont mind her buying stuff but tell her what you want,  

Answer 5

Her allowance is too high?

Answer 6

The problem is the way you told her.

I don't think she's that stupid not to notice the things you already have, she bought you a gift because she likes to give you something which she think is special, you should have said 'thank you, i really appreciate it'" first before telling her to return it, then explain to her that by next time it would be really nice to have something unique, even cheaper as long as it's from the heart.

Answer 7

if shes ur wife, she shuda known that u already had it...but if she didnt, u were quite mean..

Answer 8

Maybe she feels like she needs to treat you, but doesn't know what to get, so she buys new ones of things you already have.

Try buying her something cute and handmade, something from the heart, it doesn't have to be expensive. then tell her if she feels the need to do something nice for you, she should do something simple like cook your favorite meal, she needs not spend her money.

hope this helps!

Answer 9

Her problem is that she buys stuff you all ready have. You can tell her what you need or like to have from her...your married right? Its basically when you have money its all combined as one at taxes due. You just have a talk with her tell her you love her and are sorry she is crying. I have no man and but know where u r coming from...its like jeez...a other mug i do not need...have so many i only can use one at a time. I rather that person bought me a candy bar or a lint roller.  Tell her she could consult with you when she makes a large purchase. some couples have a rule on it...if its over $50 she needs to tell you If you are the head of the house hold or wear the pants. Do it with tact and lovingly as u tell her.  

Answer 10

I think the problem is she feels underappreciated. You need to show her that she means the world to you. Take her out on a date. Tell her the meals she cook are fantatisc. Anything like