My wife had affair with one of my friends...what do I do??

Question

I discovered the affair by accident...it has been going on for 8 months and I've been working with this guy in the office for the past eight weeks. She said they had an emotional connection and dosen't know how it got that far. My wife and I have been together of 15 years and married for almost 12. We have two kids...Here's the kicker...his wife, who's friends with my wife DOES NOT KNOW!!! In spite of what happened I still love my wife and want to work things out...we have too much to give up...am I doing the right thing??

P.S.

I want to smash his face in!!!!

Answer 1

I am always amazed at people wanting to kick the other guys a*s.

 

Why not kick her cheating a*s? 

 

Think about it, if she had not spread her legs, HE wouldn't have fucked her.

Answer 2

You seem to be very mature. Sometimes its wise to forgive for first time..ONLY first time.Yes,you can smash his face with no mercy,if you can give a complementary slap to your wife also.I am glad you are thinking right.