My wife is loseing it?

Question

She was raised by a skitzo mom. She has a distorted view of reality because of that. Now my wife (aged 59) is an emotional wreck. She accuses me of things I did not do. She screams at me for trival things.

It's her manner to throw objects (rarely).

At my wit's end, I feel like running. But, I know that will not work. Staying in this panic house is getting to me. She has 3 adult kids. I know they will take care of her. I just want to run, run, run!

Answer 1

Split man. Unless you really love and need this woman, its time to live the best years of your life in enjoying the moment. I'm retired, on the loose and have found my happiness.My ex was a wreck ofter a second marriage, I couldn't have taken her all those years Or, if you are really a caring kind person, look at her side, aging, empty nest, not as desirable as she once was,what do you contribute to her happiness to take away the stresses she must feel? we can advise you to run or split, but what if you leave something better than what you find out there? It's a jungle sometimes. At 59, she may need a balancing medication, or could have some serious health issues. Try consulting a doctor, good luck.

Answer 2

She needs therapy.

Answer 3

Run, Run, Run.

Get the h**l out of there.  What were you thinking in the first place?  Are you some type of s****t?  A kook will always be a kook.  They just get worse.

Go now!!!

Save yourself!!!

Answer 4

Well... can you encourage her to get medical attention?

Don't they have medicines that will calm her?

Answer 5

Get help and counseling for her if it is possile. running may not always be the answer; what are you running to? is she like this 24/7. Is she ever clam/nice, could she take care of the house or cook a good meal? does she have a job?  when she screams tell her "I AM NOT DEAF' DO NOT YELL, THE NEXT TIME YOU DO THAT, I  WILL LEAVE YOU.

Answer 6

counseling...therapy...cage...

Answer 7

she needs to go to the Dr. and see if there this any thing physically , wrong with her or is it all emotional. Anger management  sound like a thing she might check out. She sound like a very unhappy person. good luck