My wife looks like 100 lbs of chewed bubble gum?

Question

I can't even get sentimental anymore. We don't even kiss or make love anymore. I feel dead. What can I do?

Answer 1

You can make love to your hand and pretend that it is a hot girl!!

Answer 2

Liposuction should do it... Even if she diets and goes to the gym, she will have that yucky loose skin hanging off her... Ewwww...

Answer 3

talk to her and if you have and nothing is different than it may be time to leave and find what you are looking for.  I have learned in this life that it is way to short to make yourself miserable so do what you need to do to make your life better.  I do believe this is the only answer because it sounds to me that you may have a little hostility towards her if you can call her names like this.

Answer 4

I think that the more distant you are toward her is only going to lower her self confidence more & more. She needs you to show her you care & that you still love her regardless of her weight. I bet she doesn't like being the way she is & with a bit of loving encouragement from you she might just decide to do something about it.

Answer 5

If you look better then you may look for an other woman.

Answer 6

You feel dead because you are not kissing and making love to your wife. I suggest you take a long look at why this is so you can go back to those things. You need to talk with her and tell you how you feel and reconnect with her. None of us is as physically attractive as we age than we were when we married. My wife and I have a deeper love and I am making love to the person she it not how great she looks. Good looks are s**y for some people, but a wonderful person is sexier to me than the prettiest woman out there. You married her for a reason. Try to rediscover that reason.

Answer 7

Make her happy, and do you me she is fat? If she is fat tell her gently to lose weight.

Answer 8

LMAO!!!

Chewed Bubble gum!!!

ahahahahahahahahahhahahhahaaaaa!

Now that is funny!

Maybe you could get a gym member ship for the both of you and go together to encourage her.

Answer 9

I don't get it.  What do you mean?

Answer 10

I suggest you open your eyes and see what a beautiful woman she is on the inside!

How rude of you to disrespect your wife here on Y.A., how would she feel if she knew that you told everyone how you really feel about her.

What can you do??

Here is an answer, divorce her, so she will finally be happy!!!

Do you always talk about your wife that way behind her back??

Poor woman!!!!!

Answer 11

keep make her eat

Answer 12

Tell her how you feel.  Tell her you feel she has let herself go and you dont like the way she doesnt look after herself.

Harsh - i know - but it may be the wake up call she needs to motivate herself to look good again.

Answer 13

Did she have a baby?  Is she stressed? Was she heavy before now?  SHe didn't just wake up looking like that, it happened over time.  Are you overweight as well?  Do you love her or just what her body looks like?  I was married to a shallow man such as yourself once and I stayed heavy out of misery and spite.  Now that I am away from the pig, I work out, take kickboxing and weigh less than I have in 20 years. HE was my problem!  Do you offer to exercise or take walks with her, or do you just sit around criticizing her?  What do YOU do to help?  If she isn't motivated, she won't lose weight for ANYONE including herself.  Why don't you climb down off your high horse and try loving your wife for who she is.  If you can't do that and see past the "bubblegum" you don't have much of a marriage, then, do you?  YOU feel dead?  How do you think SHE feels not getting any love from her husband?

Answer 14

Talk to her about how you feel.

Answer 15

wow thats sum insane chub. why not bring her too a gym?

Answer 16

And what do you look like?

Answer 17

Have you considered marriage counseling at all?

It might be worth a try - who knows?

Do you still love your wife?

And how does she feel about you?

Answer 18

I may not get best answer with this reply, but two points will have to do! It is clear you did not married her that way or else you will be a fool to complain.But it does say however you watched her become what she now is.Anyone concerned about someone they love, would never let this happen.Did you try getting her to diet? exercise? or seek medical advise? If not, you are the just as guilty.Anyone seeing someone they love slowly killing themselves and does nothing is heartless to say the least.Tell her you love her and you cant see her do this to herself anymore! For all you know she may have slipped into some kind of depression because of how she feels in the relationship and decided to pig herself out.Show her you love her man!  

Answer 19

Make her go to gym

Answer 20

Sir, we can't help you with your personal issues. The only thing you can do is decide what YOU are going to do about it. If you are that miserable , you need to divorce and move on with you life. I am sure she is unhappy too, so you will actually be doing her a favor.  

Answer 21

quit feeding her

Answer 22

Do whatever you think is right just don't hurt her feelings.

Answer 23

your such a pig i do not blame her for not sleeping with you i hope she kick ur sori *** out

Answer 24

Look back at some old photos and tell her let's get back in shape to spice things up.

Answer 25

Chewed bubble gum doesn't explain the situation fully.  Have you lost sexual desire for her?  There is usually more to it than she just "looks bad" to you.  Try to get to the bottom of where you are feeling turned off, what other problems are in your marriage?  Work on those things, perhaps even by pursuing counseling so you can explore what these dead feelings are that you are having and what you can do about them.

Answer 26

LOL... sorry, but your topic line is funny !!

Ok, aside from that.  Diet... toning, exercise??  Does she do anything to help herself tone up?  I'm not sure if you're implying that she's 100 lbs overweight... or just a 100 lbs of untoned flabby weight???