My wife of 1 year has no s*x drive-been together for 8-what can i do to here?

Question

My wife of 1 year has no s*x drive-been together for 8-what can i do to here?

Answer 1

Perhaps her tastes have changed and she's bored...ask her what turns her on

Answer 2

Put your foot down and tell her to spread them.

Answer 3

she could have a hormone issue = or maybe you need to start stepping up or maybe she has interests elsewhere

Answer 4

There's really nothing you can do.  Her s*x drive was fine until you got married, right?  Most women do this when they get married, why, I have no idea.

Most women on here will tell you to try harder, romance, etc...

I would say to try less, take everything away, no hugging, no kissing, no physical contact, that will get her attention faster than anything.

And when she wants to talk about it, be very straightforward about it.

Tell her she's got to get with it or your out of here.  No woman wants to here that when they are married, because marriage gives them the sense of comfort and commitment...

Answer 5

Rub one out.  

Answer 6

Set romance on bed with alot of candle, rose on the bed, then you will see what's happen.

Answer 7

try doing some romantic gestures,telling her u love her, try counseling or just talk to her about what u r feeling.    

Answer 8

Either choke the chicken or find another incubator

Answer 9

If it becomes pleasurable for her, she will like it..

Try eye gazing, kissing class, tantra, change the total environment:

to comfort

to fragrance

to tranquility

to softness

peacefullness

etc.

tell her your so glad you married her

Call her Miss Universe, babydoll, etc.

Joy to you!

Answer 10

do it in different places..watch p**n together. Make her feel special

Answer 11

The first thing you need to do is figure out why her s*x drive is low and try to help get it back.  I was in your situation and it's not fun without being horny and feeling in the mood when needed.  I also felt like my orgasms (if I would even get one) were really weak.  Probably because of my s*x drive.

However, I tried exercising and dieting but nothing seemed to be working.  I thought I was screwed.  I then found something just as amazing as the vibrator that you should suggest to her.

My friend at work told me about this stuff she took to raise her s*x drive.  It was a natural herbal supplement and was I lucky to of found it.  Theres no side effects and the s*x drive is just tremendous along with orgasms that are blasting.  The stuff is called Hersolution pills.  At the time I saved money on them at herenhancement.com

What I did was tried out for 3 months and that was really it.  I found taking them every other day or so was the best to stretch it out. After the months were up, I was back to normal with a beating s*x drive and my o****m strength in increased so much.  

Well good luck and I hope this helps.

Answer 12

Join swingers club.

Answer 13

If marriage was just all about s*x,there wouldn't be anyone married after the first 2 years.  

Marriage is about care, committment, sharing of hobbies and work, home,future plans, children, loving one another when they aren't so loveable anymore, that includes sickness, injuries, mental illness, and the like.

Marriages aren't perfect because the s*x is good.. marriage are never perfect at all but they are solid committments of 2 people who want to form their own family, raising productive member of society and love one another.

Answer 14

Maybe it's not her, hon, maybe it's you.

Guys always think that just because they can get an erection, and keep it 30 minutes, that ought to be enough... frankly, hon, your p***s is for YOUR pleasure, your mouth and hands are for hers.... and as well, every woman ought to have a manual which reads, "How to Make Love to This Woman."  Alas, we don't.

But you can read a book... For Each Other by Lonnie Barbach, THE s*x therapist in the country today... and her other stuff is as well, nicely thought out.

I'm assuming you REALLY wish to be a better lover and husband---there indeed was a reason Casanova had women standing in line.... and it wasn't his erection!!!!!!!!!!!!!  ------ rather than this just being one of those Pop off question.  If truly that is your goal, all her books are good... and now cheap in paperback, available to you by Wednesday from Amazon.com

Answer 15

Suggest therapy and if not, try wooing her, take her on a date, rub her feet , go down on her, take her on a vacation, give her a certificate for the spa to make her feel pretty. Women have to feel pretty to have s*x (usually anyway) so let her relax and then try.